i found out that my girlfreind used to fancy this lad and i found out yesterday that she finds him sexy and cute. does this mean she still fancies him? i've approached her and she said he was cute and she says she doesnt fancy him. i belive her but how do i confront her and et her to tell me the truth without making her feel bad. thanks.
2007-09-09 10:12:46 · 12 answers · asked by Tasker101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure I really understand you here.
you say you believe her, but you say she isn't being truthful with you? I think in any relationship it's best just to be honest and blunt with each other.
If you want to know if he likes this guy then you need to ask her. I hope you don't care too much if she just thinks he's cute. I'm sure throughout your day you see a lot of females you think are cute. Doesn't really mean anything.
anyways yea ask her if she has feelings for this guy, tell her you trust her but you just need to know. If she says no, leave it at that.
good luck!
2007-09-09 10:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by crysent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's not politically correct to say, but women are designed to be attracted to men. (Some are designed to be attracted to women, of course.) What makes you think she's any less human than anyone else? Just because you're her boyfriend doesn't make her suddenly immune to the attractiveness of other men. It sounds like you've already confronted her and she's already told you the truth. You, me or anyone can find someone attractive WITHOUT wanting them- even if we fancied them before.
2007-09-09 10:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lovey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find tons and tons of guys attractive and might even like more than one person at a time (a little bit). That doesn't change that I like my boyfriend way more than the rest of them and he shouldn't feel threatened just because johnny depp is sexy as hell. Yeah? Also, if the guy is way hotter than you, then he's either out of her league or she has a really good reason to go out with you rather than super sexy guys. Either way, she's not going to dump you for him. (Besides... he's probably not hotter than you anyway so no worries.)
2007-09-09 10:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by fudgmonkees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw that doesn't mean she likes the boy. There's a lot of people i find "sexy and cute" but that doesnt matter because i only have feelings for one person right now :]
if you've already appraoched her about it and she said she doesn't have feelings for him, I wouldn't ask her again because it shows that you don't trust her and she most likely will give you the same answer.
2007-09-09 10:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to do that. Just watch if she's spending a lot of time with him or something... if you feel like she's keeping something from you then ask her about it. Otherwise just leave it alone although it's sorta odd she told you. I suppose she feels like she can tell you whatever which is a good thing. If you overeact about it she may not feel so comfortable talking to you about things.
2007-09-09 10:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel any type of way you prob find other girls cute well she can find other guys cute it doesnt mean she loves them and will leave you for them she just finds them attractive
2007-09-09 10:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 11:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by starcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times the truth hurts, and it may even set you both free!! good luck
2007-09-09 10:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being insecure. I'm sure you find other girls cute and sexy too.
2007-09-09 10:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... apparently she thinks your cuter because shes with u and remember only u can make her not interested in u
2007-09-09 10:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Cherries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋