I broke up with my boyfriend the other day. It was a long distance relationship, and it was starting to take it's toll on me, so I ended it. I asked him if we could still be friends. He never did anything wrong to me, but I have a lot of problems and issues that he shouldn't have had to deal with. But I love him, and I miss him. Everybody keeps telling me I did the right thing, but I don't think I did. What do I do now? If we got back together, I'd still be miserable because of the distance, but I can't stand not being with him.
2007-09-09 10:04:05 · 16 answers · asked by Becca 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get in social situations to meet someone locally. You want him because you two were together. But as you already know, long distance doesn't cut it. If you can't go where he is and he can't come to where you are, it isn't going to work.
2007-09-09 10:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that I'm, like, the 100,000,000th person telling you this, but you did do the right thing. It lifted a lot of weight off of his shoulders. If you would still be miserable being WITH him, then why would you want to get back together with him? Get another BF, one that is good at listening and has a good shoulder for crying. :)
2007-09-09 17:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back together. You've already formulated the pro/con list and have decided it's better for you to not be in a long distance relationships. Now you're just missing him, wait a while.
2007-09-09 17:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Manny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for one why is distance a problem. If you can see him now and then why worry. But why listen to your friends. Do you do everyhting your friends tell you? Why not let them tell you what to do everyday since you worry about what they think, this way you won't have to worry. So if you really love hima nd he loves you you shoudl try to keep on trying to be together every chance you get.
2007-09-09 17:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hon... well, think about it... you left him for a reason.. if things were right...it wouldnt have even crossed your mind to do so... you're just mourning the loss of a relationship.. when i broke up with a guy i dated for along time who was mentally abusive and controlling.. i felt the same way.. and this guys wasnt even bad...so it's normal... obviously you need your time to figure everything out..if its long distance then take advantage of the fact that its easier to get over it with him not always being around... you just said if you got back with him you would be miserable...babah girl thats your answer right there...sometimes no matter how much you want something you just gotta let it go because it isnt right...and i think you know that... concentrate on yourself right now... good luck<3
2007-09-09 17:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by peacexlovexrocknroll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's tough because of the distance and long distance relationships usually don't work out. You kind of have to decide that on your own and because what we think is good may not be the same thing you want. I think you should try being without him, it will be hard but there's not much you can do because you already said you will be miserable because of the distance. Good luck.
2007-09-09 17:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by DoLz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the best what is good for you, you have to make your own decision. If it's better that you stay apart, don't go back to him.
Find another boyfriend!
2007-09-09 17:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go back to him and tell him wats on your mind
maybe he can help
and if your friends say you did the right thing than thats their oppinion but your opinion is the best of them all...
:o)
2007-09-09 17:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by CC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best yu could do is try to get over it n mayb look for sum new guys tht are from yur town or live by yu
2007-09-09 17:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Nancee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel that strongly see if he will get back with you.
and try get him to help you with your issues
that's what couples are about sharing things together,
2007-09-09 17:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by mirrorbee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋