we broke up about a year ago because we kept arguing and I was really jealous and insecure. He wanted to spend more time with friends than me and I didn't feel valued. We split up and now I'm over him I'm not jealous anymore.
He doesn't know it but he plays mind games, When I want him he'll say he's not interested, but when I play it cool and go out with other guys he says he wants to be with me again.
I love him so much as a friend, and I wish we could be together, but I say no because I know he hasn't changed, and doesn't know what he wants.
What shall I do? I've told him the mind games have to stop, he denies them and so I said I don't want to see you again.
What do you think of him? and the situation i'm in?
2007-09-09 09:59:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and if you don't have anything nice to say, stop wasting your time and don't say anything at all.
2007-09-09 10:09:44 · update #1
I think you did the right thing. NO DOUBT! You need friends that are supportive of you; not playing games and trying to get for themselves all the time. Good job. There are other people out there in need of a good friend; and willing to be a good friend. Good luck dear! Nana
2007-09-09 10:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-20 08:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by ollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex like that, who ended things with me but then decided he couldnt leave me alone or live without me, , i said id stay mates if he just got on with his life seperate to me, but he couldnt handle it....he evn had a new gf and kept alling me moaning how **** his relationship was and how he wanted me back...... BUT i was strong and even tho its taken over 2 yrs to get him off my back.... and the only way i could do it was to tell him he's gotta give me some space, live his own life with his gf and if i need him ill call him, which i havent yet done and i havent heard from him either!!!
2007-09-09 10:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by ps2600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why put yourself through this? It sounds like you have a head on your shoulders and see what is going on. You don't need this. You know it will be the same as it was. Do you want this?
2007-09-09 10:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think of him?
*Eww, meatballs. I would have cut it off clean withe him if I were you, he isn't worth a screw to my life.
and the situation i'm in?
*Decide. Somethings' certainly offtrack if it'd lasted a year(or more?). Make up your mind(about him), stop spindling nowhere, life has got better things.
2007-09-09 10:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...sounds like you still love him
and if thats not the case leave him in the past.
(friend or not)
If you couldnt be "friends" while dating - what makes you think you can be "friends" now?
Being a FRIEND is having respect for one another.
2007-09-09 10:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by sassy222girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are about 16. I suggest growing up.
If that doesn't work, go **** someone else and get on with your life.
2007-09-09 10:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sanmigsean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like both of u are too immature to be in a relationship
2007-09-09 10:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs to grow up
you be better of with out him
2007-09-09 10:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by mirrorbee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think bas about him lets me tell you somthing .we dont know what imoprtant we have only when we lost . give him another chance .if he had hope to back togther ,please dont kill his hope befor born. be forgiver
2007-09-09 10:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by jack_power24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋