we have been together 2 years, i got pregnant and had a miscarriege after 8 months, and i do love him very much and care for him. he does make me happy, and it seems he does care about me. even though he has been caught cheating, he always seems to be coming back asking for forgiveness.
2007-09-09 06:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! You should have been gone after the second time.
2007-09-09 06:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by MR. Tumnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say: Three strikes and you're out! He's obviously not the guy you think he is if he keeps on cheating.
My Psychology professor would have this to say: The first time he cheats on you, it's his fault. But the second time, it's your fault, because you're ALLOWING the behavior! You keep on allowing him to cheat on you; he knows that even if he treats you like dirt, he'll still have you to go back to. So I say dump his pathetic ***!
2007-09-09 13:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by kulegurl98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO-o-o-o-! If he's done it once, twice, three times-- he's not a charmer! He'll just keep doing it as long as you let him back into your life by always accepting his apologies. The next time, gladly accept his apology but tell him that just because you forgive him (again) doesn't mean that you have to keep on accepting this behavior. Dump him, and get on with your life. He'll just keep doing this, and if he does this to you-- he'll do it to his next girlfriend.
2007-09-09 13:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay....................If he's continued to cheat on you is because he KNOWS he can get away with it. You keep taking him back and he knows you will so.........HE NOT GOING TO STOP.
Put you foot down. You have to love yourself enough to know you deserve someone who is going to respect and love you.
He tends to walk over you and ask for forgiveness. Do you know why?
Because you knows what he's doing is wrong.
If you knows what he's doing is wrong and does it anyway...he may not love you as much as you Both think.
2007-09-09 14:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Creative One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. dont be his doormat. If he loves u then he wouldnt cheat. there isnt an excuse to cheat. so what if he makes u happy. he sure doesnt when he has done it 3times! get over that loser and find someone who will treat u right!
2007-09-09 14:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by chloë 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you say he love you when his cheating on you?leave him be it will cheat on you again even if you forgive him again that's for sure, i know its hard for you coz u love him but try to use your brain not your heart this time.
bang!!!
2007-09-09 14:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by ☺flip∞flap☻ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he doesn't think you're good enough for him, then he isn't good enough for you!
2007-09-09 14:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋