in the car,at home, in public...Its crazy! I dont even understand, we fight about the stupidest stuff! Ive tried everything to just keeping my mouth shut but they end up still fighting anyway. what can we do to get some peace?
2007-09-09 06:26:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all I have to ask how old are you and your siblings? Really there is nothing you can do about the fighting that they have going on with each other. All you can control are your actions. If they are fighting at home then remove yourself to a quieter place. If they try to pick a fight with you then refuse to respond and again move to a different area. Shut yourself in your room or just refuse to respond, I know hard to do but stick with it, it will pay off. After a while when they see that they can't get a rise out of you and that you refuse to engage in their bickering then they will at least leave you alone and may follow your example.
2007-09-09 06:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by houghchrst@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jogs my memory of a caricature image showing a father spanking his son on a similar time as telling him "this might practice you to no longer hit your sister." Your mom fairly could take a extra lively function in struggling with such habit. At age 7 and 11 they could properly known extra efficient by now. she will discipline them without brilliant them. She could restrict them, do away with privileges, etc. You did no longer point out a father discern, so it may be they're scuffling with for the suitable spot interior the relatives. The boy is fairly the right age to understand he shouldn't strike females, nor could his habit be allowed to proceed. that's not too previous due on your mom to attend some form of helpful parenting type. She might additionally seek for counseling to help her extra efficient understand their habit and the thank you to evade the newborn's undesirable habit. according to hazard you're able to help by chatting at the same time with your grandparents and notice in the event that they in turn, could impact their daughter to get some lots needed help. good success
2016-10-10 06:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fight all the time with my siblings and there's only one way to stop it. Get a job or an activity to participate in. The more you seperate from them, they will leave you alone.
2007-09-09 06:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by astrolame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody has to be the better person and take the first step to putting and end to all the fighting.
Where are the adults in this equation?
2007-09-09 07:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by dapperdudet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called sibling rivlary. It isn't uncommon and believe it or not, you are not the first person to experience this. It's in our DNA ... We have to fight for what we believe in. If you didn't fight all the time you wouldn't like each other.
2007-09-09 06:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In order to have a fight with you -----YOU have to participate -just don't ! They will get tired of your lack of participation and give up sooner or later.
Talk to Mom and Dad about it .
2007-09-09 06:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something together. I argue with my bro a lot but for sum reason he wanted to make a giant paperchain and when i did it with him he didn't argue with me for almost a week lol. OK, that is a pretty random example but my bro is completely mad. ;-)
2007-09-09 07:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by pinkelephant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the one who wants to make a change, try giving way to their "needs" and being the bigger person. Try maybe reasoning with them when they are calm and by themselves. Let them know how you feel and that they are being childish.
2007-09-09 06:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everybody SHUT-UP!!
2007-09-09 06:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time for a parent to step in...
2007-09-09 06:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋