I can't give up on him because i love him so much no matter what and his well uh lets go with (girlfriend) is using him and i can't tell him and i can't introduce myself at all. What should I do? help me!!!!!!!!
2007-09-09 06:14:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think you should just move on, why waste a good amount of time on a total loss...
2007-09-09 06:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone when they don't know you exist? If you aren't even on the same grounds, how can you know all the secret little things that make a person worth loving. You may be only seeing a facade. Realize there's more to this person and the only way you'll get anywhere with them is by introducing yourself. Don't make friends and then tell him his gf is using him. How exactly do you know that? How about find a common place you go, like a cafe or store, and strike up a convo at the counter. Then, show him how great YOU are so he can have something to compare his gf to.
2007-09-09 13:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by MR. Tumnus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I was in this situation myself with a girl I liked that i knew was being used and basically disrespected by her boyfriend. Of course I already liked her before i knew she even had one. So i told her that I did and she told me about the guy and all the crap he puts her through. At this time my concern was for her heart. But somewhere down the line, she thought that all i was trying to do was break them up just so we could be together. She stayed with him I guess because they were together for 3 years. A few months later she was single and I tried again. Man was she ticked off.
(Of course we worked all that out cuz she realized what happened and now were just cool)
But i don't even want her anymore.
All depends on how much you want to get involved with him sweetie.
2007-09-09 13:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by VofD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of his affairs, its none of your - or anyone's - business how his relationship is going.
And don't fixate on any one guy. Be yourself and spend time pursuing things that you enjoy instead of what you want.
I have found freedom and happiness in pursuing new things and practicing what I choose to continue practicing. I used to obsess over certain women that I found appealling.
What a waste of time. I would probably not stay with her because of something I failed to see in her and in the process, would be depriving myself of the many truly good friendships I now enjoy with a multitude of females of different station in life.
Believe me, in time you will discover another guy that you like. And amazingly, a great relationship will come at you in a most unsuspected way. My point is that no matter how wonderful I felt that a relationship WOULD be, life has shown that the best one's are the one's I never planned.
2007-09-09 13:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be totally in love with a guy you don't know except from sight? That's the way it sounds since you said he doesn't know you exist. I think you just have a crush on him.
He has a girlfriend, doesn't now you exist so why are you wasting your time on someone who isn't available? I think you'd be better off finding someone who knows and likes you instead.
2007-09-09 13:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HeyI'm mooses rock and I've got a prob like yours. I know you can't forget about him, I can't forget the guy I like either, but everyone is tellin me to move on. So talk to him. Have your friends and his hang out together and get yourself noticed by sitting near him and laughing alot but don't come on to strong! Be aware of how much ur flirting but just make him know your there!
2007-09-09 13:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get talking to him. It's not hard to start a conversation. Don't give up on it, try and become good friends with him. Don't be too pushy with the accusations about his girlfriend though, because he might think that you're trying to get rid of her.
2007-09-09 13:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should introduce your self to him and let know whats going on because u never know how it's going to turn out!
2007-09-09 13:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by alexuis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all dont think that u r not noticeable because every girl is noticeable because each girl has her own looks u just got to look for those looks and let them out and i can bet on this one that he will notice u and he wont be able to resist u for a sec try it baleive me it works all the time U can count on that
2007-09-09 13:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew Benjamin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being his friend first.Don't tell him about his girlfriend ,because that will draw him closer to her.I wouldn't tell him you're in love with him at this point ,since he's already seeing someone.
2007-09-09 13:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him. Introduce yourself. Or he may never know you exist. Even if you get rejected, (which is unlikely) it's all good, because then you know he's not for you. If you never try, the answer is "no" anyway!!! Go for it!!! Shazam!
2007-09-09 13:20:11 · answer #11 · answered by ciao! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋