please anyone help me with thissss :(?

Question

allright now here are the symptoms that i have and i dont know what exactly this is:
-Cannot focus
-cannot plan
-feel under some kind of preasure all the time
-feeling of detachment/depersonalization
-fear of that detachment
-fear of a lot of things ( being ill, fear of my bf leaving me)
-constant worrying
-finding it hard schedule stuff
-late for appointments
-forgetting everything
-when i try to focus my mind goes blank (sometimes i feel like i dont even know how to think, and this makes me feel stupid)
-pretty high IQ
-constant thinking, and getting way too little stuff done( i sit and think of how stupid i am, how worthless, how noody really loves me, instead of getting stuff done like cleaning the house or so)
-highly self conscious
-very low selfesteem.

My biggest problem is constant fear of stuff, constant thinking, and the unability to focus, to think straight. it feels like some part of my brain is kinda frozen and i cannot use it to make plan, or think. I know im clever bu

...but this makes me feel so damnstupid...and i feel scared if i cant ever change this.I mean im on college, i pass my exams...but its hard for me to deal with real life stuff, making decisions, making connections between certain situations... i dont know...i feel confused:(

Answer 1

If you are doing well in college, then you are ahead of the game, but you ought to be smart enough to know when you need help. Make an appointment with a therapist to find out why you are so fearful.

Answer 2

Firstly,In no way are you stupid!
As small as it may seem,you have just taken your first step to recovery...You have openly admitted you have a problem and are asking for help and that's VERY Brave!!
I feel it sounds like you are under a huge amount of pressure and/or stress or even that it has gone past that now and you are clinically depressed.
Obviously,your first port of call is your doctor.In this day and age depression is recognised as a genuine 'illness' and though medication may not be the answer for you personally,it is always an option at least until you find the strength to hold your own and battle this for yourself.At the Gp's they will also be able to help and advise you of many different organisations that are out there to help,The help is out there..USE IT!
You have not put anything about your situation,family,past..there are many things that could have lead you up to this???.And if this is the case then get to the bottom of it all...What/who sparked off these feelings?,When was this?..Write it down if it helps because until you find the root cause of all these feelings you are simply treating the symptoms and in realising the root to it all,ask yourself,can you eliminate this??.
You are alive and breathing,You must have many many things that you hold dear..focus on those things too,but Please,please take this to a professional as it doesnt sound like you are recieving much support.
All the best of luck to you!!

Answer 3

All the above, point to Anxiety neurosis.You seem to suffer from the same.Better check up with a psychologist or psychiatrist,who can be of profesional help.In these times,the strain and stress of daily hectic life takes its toll in such forms of uncalled for anxiety syndromes,schizopherenia,neurosis etc.For a start you can do meditation and light yoga.Yoga in such cases gurantees stress and strain relief from the very first day.Start from Breathing exercises of yoga which are quite simple and can be done anywhere and anytime.It helps in developing concentration and relieving stress.And last but not the least,follow a routine life habit.Take plenty of sleep.

Answer 4

Sounds like it could be quite a few things....

Your first stop should be the counseling office on campus. They will sit down with you and talk to you to see what is going on, how you are feeling, and help you understand whatever is going on in your brain.

It's there, you need to use it. Trust me, finding out what is going on, or causing all this anxiety/fear/depression/whatever it is, will really help....

Answer 5

You sound stressed, now how much of this is self created stress? You may want to start taking some good multivitamin with lots of B-12. If that doesnt help go see a doc.

Answer 6

Chronic depression is a common problem ,you must get to a doctor or councillor to help you get through this. it could be a medical or physio reason ,but you can be cured and helped if you don`t leave it to long.
It can be caused by stress ,life style ,or many under laying factors .

Answer 7

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Answer 8

you may be having panic &anaxity attacks .see a doctor.
you feel much better

Answer 9

depression mabye? go to a doctor