I don't want to get into the whole story (because that will take more than 1000 characters...) but I was with this guy about 5 years ago, we broke up on a semi-bad note and he STILL calls from time to time. I have asked him to stop calling and tried to show him in so many different ways that i'm not interested in him anymore (i've even had a boyfriend after I broke up with him AND told him about it) but I can tell by the nature of his phone calls he still thinks there is something there. Please what can I do to get him to stop!!
** I can't change my number because its my mom's house number that he is calling...not my cell phone.
2007-09-09 06:06:55 · 13 answers · asked by *_Yve_* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that if he does not stop calling you you are going to be forced to get a restraining order and if the threat of actually doing so is not enough to stop him go to your local courthouse and find out how to file the restraining order to keep him from calling you . . . .
2007-09-09 06:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by theotherwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very nice person, and I am sure you don't want to hurt this guys feelings. It sounds like he hasn't gotten the message that your just not interested anymore. There is a point, with some people, where you just can't be nice anymore. They take that as you being interested, and that isn't your fault. Next time he calls calmly tell him you are not interested, this is the last time you will be speaking to him, and if he calls again you will just hang up. If this continues for a month or so let him know that you will be considering a restraining order.
2007-09-09 06:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have MOM do an interception the next time he calls your house. Let your mom answer and tell him politely that you will no longer be accepting his calls, then have you mom tell him that if he continues to call...then she might be inclined to inform the police for harassment charges.
*Usually.........they take the hint.* Especially when it comes from the parents.
Then if things persist even after that, you might have to go talk to the police about harassment and a restraining order.
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2007-09-09 06:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he calls, cut him short and tell him that you have things to do, and have to go. Don't get into conversations with him, because then he thinks you want to hear from him. If you don't cut him off he will continue to call until he finally gets the idea that you are not interested.
2007-09-09 06:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reiterating to him to stop calling and then hang up. Don't let him pull you into the conversation or it will perpetuate the behavior.
2007-09-09 06:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by goodcook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. my ex kept calling and i got so frustrated with it and so i told one of my guy friends and when my ex called me and my friend just happened to be at my house, my friend totally flipped out on my ex and e never called back again.
but if that doesnt help you, you could just ignore his calls. or like when he calls be like "sorry i cant talk, im going to go hang out with my friends/bf. bye." or "sorry im busy right now"
2007-09-09 06:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by funique35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore the hell at him or when he calls be like ya i saw this hot guy and he thinks im hot to o hes calling and say bye
haha :)
2007-09-09 06:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block his calls. Ask the phone co. how to do it.
2007-09-09 06:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another boyfriend, and have him beat his asss. yeah, lol. but really, get caller ID and dont pick up if its a blocked number or him.
2007-09-09 06:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by blasting ♥ music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have an answering machine that will pick up? if yes let it go onto that and if it's not him leaving the message then pick up
2007-09-09 06:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋