People are usually thinking of what they are going to wear or what they are going to do for diner tonight but all I have been doing is thinking of a way to end it all..In the past 7 mnths. I hav lost EVERYTHING..Fiancee' home everything I own my car , my self worth, my money,. My fiancee left me and drained the bank account(wasnt much anyways) but I have a little 5 yr old boy and couldnt pay the rent, so I had to move into a really good friends house, well Ive been here for bout a mnth and a half and im overstaying my welcome..i got a job but was fired because i refused to date the VERY unattractive boss(the story has more detail but thats the short version) so now I have no money again. my phone goes off today. I have NO family. they are either dead or into drugs. I just dont want to go on anymore..I just crashed my car yesterday on my way to a job interview and I had no insurance, I tried to run but it was stupid and I stopped, so now I have a courtdate at the end of this month for ,
2007-09-09 05:28:15 · 16 answers · asked by Sexykel 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Go to the emergency room , say you have thoughts of suicide , your homeless with a child . They well take care of you , best thing about that is you dont have to pay for your er visit . Mexican illegals go to the er and get care . So youll be fine. Just do it , I work in an er and people with your problem get help all the time here. Dont do anything foolish that well leave your kid screwed for life . Do you want your druggy family geting your kid ? Hell no !
2007-09-09 05:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the answer. It amazes me when a woman says she is in your situation and has no options. (B.S.) A woman can get pretty much anything as long as there is men around. It doesn't even matter if you are ugly or overweight there are plenty of men just looking for some attention that would empty their bank accounts give you a home offer to take care of your kid whatever, and if you want to do it alone you have plenty of other options (stripping, dancing, hooking, porno etc. etc.) women have it made. don't say you couldn't cause every single female has done it in one way or another at one time or another. Hey truth hurts and lifes a ***** accept facts and move on. You women are in control. You don't even have to sleep with us, we're stupid we've been programmed to be the providers Hell we'll give you everything just for the attention. Yes I must be an *** for saying such things, but you know it's true. If you want to talk more contact me. Good Luck!
2007-09-09 06:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can send you some money that i can raise like about 100 dollars maybe you can pay your friend 25$ a month? Maybe you can try to get a job in a Publix or something close to your friends house or something. Ask them if you can borrow a couple of dollars just to start a job and if you could stay there about 3 more weeks maybe 4 weeks or at least until you were stable enough to move into your own apartment. I would like to hear the VERY unattractive Boss story. Maybe you can put a ad in the NewsPaper about a Kissing Booth 2.00 per iss 4.00 to make out 600.00 for XXX
I dont know just throwing out ideas here.
Hope I Helped and May God be with you on your troubling life!
2007-09-09 05:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is what we make it ,there are some out side influence that can wreak some of our plans but we then should try and get over these problems. No life is not fair but more make it than not ,others give op and blame every thing but them selves
You must really want to make a life style change and not blame all our circumstances.
Put a plan to get a real job and to work and get money to change your life and then the thoughts of harm or suicide will go as you achieve things and give your self the respect you deserve.
You said that after the accident you tried to run and realised it was stupid so you have brains and morals so use them for your own good
2007-09-09 05:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My Mother took her own life.I cannot ever forget that. How could you even consider that with a five year old son. Look in the phone book for a shelter, womens' group or organizations that will help you, even the Salvation Army and places like that would help. If I lived closer to you, I would help you. The first step is helping yourself. And, the Serenity prayer has always helped me. Pray to God to grant you the serenity to accept the things you cannot change, courage to change the things you can, and the wisdom to know the difference. If you have a court date at the end of this month, tell them your situation. They should be able to offer some solutions. You can do it! Good Luck!
2007-09-09 05:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have known people who have been in your shoes and they have picked themselves up and gone on with their lives. We all go through phases where it seems that everything is conspiring against us. I have also known a couple of people who decided that suicide was the option and they left behind so much devastation. Think of what would happen to your little boy if you did this. Think of the fact that he would have to live with your suicide the rest of his life.
Nothing here cannot be fixed. When you hit rock bottom there is no place to go but up. I don't know if you have a belief in the Lord or not, but one place to start is to pray for help and guidance. You would be surprised what that can do for you.
Next, you need some counseling. Check with your local county services and see what is available to you. Next make an appointment to talk to employment services and discuss your options for full-time employment. List yourself with temp agencies. Many companies are using temp agencies to screen people for eventual full-time work by starting them out as temps. Look into public transportation for the short-come if possible.
You say you are overstaying your welcome at your friend's house. Please sit down with your friend and explain that you are well aware that you need to move out and outline your plans for doing so. Ask them if they are okay with you staying until you can start work. If you can show them you are progressing they will probably be very encouraging. It will also show the court that you are trying to put your life back together and that will count a long way for you.
You can lift yourself out of this.You are the parent and the adult here and you need to set an example for your son that shows him how to grow up to be a responsible adult. You do that by taking responsibilty for yourself and your child. Offer to pay your friend some rent when you are able so you are at least helping out.
Lastly, do not combine your finances with a man to whom you are not married. That's not wise.
You CAN do this. It may not be easy, but lessor people than you have overcome greater obstacles than these. Just shift gears on that attitude and take a deep breath. That little boy is counting on you.
2007-09-09 05:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to have faith and believe in God. He never closes a door without opening another. Now that you hit rock bottom, get your self back up and think about that little boy of yours. If you try and commit suicide, you will be taking the cheap easy way out of life leaving him without a mother and full of questions. Don't be selfish and start thinking about what you can do to get back on your feet. Sometime we have to humble ourselves and take what ever we can get at the time. Pray Pray Pray and ask God for forgiveness of all your sins. Your not the first to go through this, and you wont be the last. Take Care and God Bless.
2007-09-09 05:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wanted to say that is sure is a lot of bad things to be happening to a person. I know it may seem hopeless; there is some good advice given here and I hope things will turn around for you soon.
Hard as it seems, you have to pick up and do your best and use what resources there are out there for someone in your situation. If you don't use any of the advice here, I could suggest you look up Social Services in your telephone book and explain your situation. They may have some solutions.
2007-09-09 06:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is one thing that I have learned from my depression (I have been a sufferer for 20+ years) is that when you think it couldn't get any worse...it does. And when you think it couldn't get any better...it does.
Tomorrow is a new day. Who knows what will happen tomorrow? It could turn your WHOLE life around. So, do not be so hasty to throw the towel in just yet.
You also have a 5 year old little boy who needs his mother around. And you need him too. If there is one little light in your life then it is him.
Smack yourself around a few times, brush yourself off and stand up and go out there tomorrow determined to change your life.
Do something completely out of the ordinary. Go apply for a job you wouldn't normally apply for. Walk there if you have to!
Save up money and get you and your little boy a home for yourselves. It is possible...many women have done it and many women will do it.
Remember...tomorrow is a NEW day.
Good luck!
2007-09-09 05:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please just keep that little 5 year olds face in your mind. He depends on you. You can't let him down. Even if you are having a hard time you still have each other and he knows you love him and you know he loves you. Pray. Sometimes I think the Lord lets us get as low as we can get so we see that we really need him in our lives. Everything will not be roses but you will always have the Lord on your side if you accept him into your heart. Remember the bad times help us to appreciate more the good times.
2007-09-09 05:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Wilma S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋