I've been living in a world of inconsistencies up until now.
The word has never occurred in my family.
It affects my personality today.
I'm jealous of people who are consistent and forever organized.
I believe only those who are consistent will succeed in their life.
I'd like to be one of them, but, so far, I fail to do that.
It may sounds to be a lame excuse, but, things keep happening around me and often beyond my control.
Please tell me, what is the best way to fulfill my hope?
2007-09-09 05:19:36 · 12 answers · asked by LinzAbadi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Keep trying. Everyone has their own particular specialty without being a clone of someone else. You just have to find yours. Everyone is unique in their own way Hon.
2007-09-09 05:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First nothing is beyond our control unless we let it be. Second there are a lot of inconsistent people who suceed in life (just look at our goverment) The first thing that you need to do is start liking who you are right this second. don't worry about what anyone else thinks about you. The only opinion that matters is your own. Once you start liking who you are the other things will fall into place
2007-09-09 05:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all ...it's all up to u. I understand very much how this must feel to u. I come from a family of inconsistent people....and nature seems to wanna keep me there.
I have learned to schedule my life a bit better....
Not deal with people that can't keep their word...
Stick to something no matter how much I hate it- or become bored with it.
It's a hard knock life when u come from a deranged family past...it tries to follow u where ever u go. Just keep moving but not to fast....and let u no mean no ur yes mean yes.
2007-09-09 05:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those people who appear organised have exactly the same thoughts as you do. And it is true: control is the illusion, and a lot of things are beyond our control.
I would advise you to relax a little and learn to live with it (otherwise known as 'go with the flow'), or suffer extreme frustration.
2007-09-09 05:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it has been a matter of living a modest and simple life. It is about giving up the *sources* of concerns and stress.
If it's your job - maybe it's time for a change.
If it's your friends, maybe it's time for new ones.
It's all in the "Serenity Prayer":
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change; (that means everybody else, everything else!)
courage to change the things I can; (that means YOU!)
and wisdom to know the difference.
Abraham Lincoln once said that he "reckoned that a man was just about as happy as he makes up his mind to be."
Happiness is an inside job, my friend.
2007-09-09 05:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Don't think negatively.
2) All life is inconsistent, those that do well know this.
3) Take a risk in something, it will pay off.
2007-09-09 05:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by The Return Of Sexy Thor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't consistent. Make the best of what you've got, and enjoy it! There's really nothing else you can do about things beyond your control, so don't sweat it!
2007-09-09 05:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by nobody important 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have very littleconfidence in yourself. Join some competition or camp to helpyou build up that confidence you need. You need to believe in yourself 1st b4 any miracle will come your way. Good luck.
2007-09-09 05:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lost-Hurt-Disappointed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, keep on your path of laziness. I find the best way to avoid criticism is to set expectations low.
2007-09-09 05:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Starvin' Marvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each day, make one small step toward better organization and more consistent behavior.
2007-09-09 05:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by cosmo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋