we been together for 3 years living a happy life and gone through many sweet and sad moments together....3 months ago she went abroad to study(1st time leaving her family and me) and because she is lonely and sad being alone her heart went to another person who care for her and be there for her when she need it and she told me that she no longer loves me and eventually she dumped me....the problem is the person is a girl...she did not show any interest with girl during the past 3 years other than being friends...she did have alots of girl friends that i know and we used to have fun together....i still love and care for her...will she regret when she comes home? she will be coming home end of this month
i am willing to forgive her....she is a good girl all the while...but sometimes she is emotional and may make mistake....
I really want to try my best to get her back when she is back home......i will pick her up at the airport...wish me luck >.<
2007-09-09 05:17:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she left you for another man, would she think she'd come back?
No.
Get over her, she's a lesbian. It's not a choice.
2007-09-09 05:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how I look at it...for the first time she's independent. And she made a choice to be with someone else may it be another girl or a guy doesn't really matter. Chances are she might be with a man again in the future but don't hold your breath that it might be you. You need to spread your wings and start dating other girls as well. If you are meant to be with her, it will happen when it happens. If you try to get her back, you also need to face certain consequences such as "what if she rather be with the other person?" or "will she leave me again in the future once she goes away again?" And you need to realize that just because you were very happy with her and your relationship doesn't necessarily mean she felt the same way. Good luck.
2007-09-09 05:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey friend, she ain't into u . Accepting it is the route to go, there are long term hurts, and its only when you get it right in a relationship that u understand that loving a person is one thing but the " fit"is very necessary. Alot of people don't fit. Its an unspoken reality. My daughter is about to remarry a guy and she does not fit with him. Yea, i love him and she wants to love him but on a day to day, this guy bothers her greatly-----she is responding to his lavishing expensive gifts, and attention, that will only be temporary. She is acting like she is not encumbered by this child he wants to have, when I know she does not want a pregnancy, doesn't like spending time with his family and isn't liking his weird religion. So she will incur alot of pain for ignoring her own self-----being afraid to move on and yet another kid will suffer.You cannot make it work, and eventually you do see what resurfaces, and doesn't fit. Its you that your not comfortable with cause you don't want to find someone that fits right.
2007-09-09 05:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i Ive got alot of sympathy for you, having you girlfriend turn lesbo on ya and all. I don't really know what else to say except for when you pick her up give her a very long and passionate kiss to show her whats shes been missing. if that don't go over well, .......... i don't know what to tell you your on your own from their.
2007-09-09 05:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely doubt she will come back to u. maybe be friends, but not romanticaly. I think you should move on, when u are ready to, but dont wait for her. she is certainly not waiting for you.
2007-09-09 05:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Belial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she mite come bak. Ill wish u with the best luck ever!!!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-09 05:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ain't comin back...be a man get your weight up.....give up all these dudes in my lap?
2007-09-09 05:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by 2sexxxy32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋