"ive been very busy with work. I am so tired"
I replied, "Thats all you had to say."
Should I be mad though? What do you think? hes been ignoring me for a few days!
2007-09-09 05:13:02 · 23 answers · asked by confusedz1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh......................I didnt know.....
Yeah I will not text anymore. Geez
2007-09-09 05:17:58 · update #1
He sounds like a jerk. If a guy doesn't always want to talk to you they most likely are loosing interest. You can find someone else who is worth your time, this guy doesn't sound like he is. Forget him, you sound like you're too good for him anyways. Good Luck!
2007-09-09 05:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have things been busy at work? And what was the relationship before this happened? If you msg'd would he respond right away or would he do it when he had time? Is also a matter of how long the ignoring of texts has gone on for... if you msg'd him 6 times in 4 hours durring work time, he might not be able to answer (he's gotta work to pay that cell phone bill). But if you've msg'd him on Wednesday and he's just getting back to you now to say he's sorry been busy with work... and you havent heard anything else or seen him, no phone calls, i think you guys need to sit down and discusss.
Either he's with you and can drop you the common curtsey to let you know he's still alive, or tell him not to let the door hit his a*s on the way out.
2007-09-09 05:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word from a guy:
Guys do get busy, and they do get tired, particularly when someone's calling, paging or texting them all through the days and weeks.
Guys have lives apart from girls, and girls just aren't the most important things in a guy's life. Neither is staying in touch all the time.
Face it, you don't see guys calling and texting to their friends at every opportunity.
Why should you be mad just because he's being like a guy?
Considering the reply you sent him, I wouldn't blame him if he was mad.
Get over yourself. Chill out. Ease off. Apologize for being an annoying gf.
2007-09-09 05:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sh** happens, sometimes people do get swamped with work and family matters. It's nothing to be insulted about.
Then again, he might just be annoyed with you and that's why he hasn't talked to you lately. Or he simply has no interest in you, which is why he has made no efforts to contact you or hang out with you for that matter.
I wouldn't be mad and making smart a** remarks back to him. You'll only dig yourself into a hole.
Maybe you should try being cool about it and letting him do his own thing and you do yours.
Next time, just say:
"Sorry to bother you, I just wanted to see if you might want to get together sometime and hang out and get lunch or something?"
Then he'll respond......and you should respect that response.
Go from there.
.........If you keep pestering him, he's really going to get annoyed and turned off by that. Guys don't like the clingy types.
2007-09-09 05:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he sounds like a loser with an agenda........you should have just told him to rest well......and leave it alone.....no one should be ignored if he had intent he would do so. Nobody is so busy anymore......that they can reply to a text or email......and what someone said about men being straight forward is probably weak too, cause being straight forward is responding honestly and in due time to someone you supposedly have interest in. It is a matter of respect.
2007-09-09 05:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by rob lou 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you ought to quit being so needy and let him breath a little. Perhaps he has been very busy with work and is tired as he told you. I think you are creating problems and killing your relationship if there is anything left at this point
2007-09-09 05:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by motherofthree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's your boyfriend, then I think you have the right to be a little mad at him. Like you say, all he had to say was that he was busy and tired.
If he's a friend, then I think you should go a little easier on him, after all he doesn't have to be texting you all the time.
2007-09-09 05:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be mad at him... he was busy. Maybe he wasn't getting your text messages.
Yes, he should have replied to at least one of them, but then, he was really stressed out and busy.
Just call him. Tell him you aren't mad (you shouldn't really be), but you know, it's okay to be disappointed that you haven't really talked to him.
But he wasn't trying to ignore you on purpose. Guys just get that way sometimes - they get stressed, they forget stuff, they don't think to reply to a text message.
2007-09-09 05:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is trying to ignore you for a while. See sometimes i dont reply until forever but im not ignoring him, im just really actually busy, so either way, i hope everything works out for you!
2007-09-09 05:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know because you didnt say anything about a arguement that you 2 might of had. who knows maybe he is just tired and been busy from work. . i dont care what you girls think guys dont send messages or signs that much. we ar epretty straight foreward with what we say
2007-09-09 05:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errrr
well, first you have to understand that a guy has his own busy life.
perhaps he was busy, you have to understand him. That's how relationships work, go slow!!
but, yes you should be mad, and you need to take your stake,
you have to call him more often and declare your existence
good luck girl!
2007-09-09 05:41:46 · answer #11 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋