2007-09-09 04:29:43 · 19 answers · asked by k 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it does, cause it makes me think he's not satisfied with me, looking at greener pasture and if the opportunity came along he might go grazing somewhere else, if he can get the chance. I want a guy who is satisfied with me only (all of me), walking down the street and having a glance at a beautiful woman going by is okay, naked pictures a no no.........
2007-09-09 04:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Greeneyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We occasionally look together, as a turn on. I like to see the beautiful sensual pictures too. It can be a very sexy thing to do, share the arousal with him over a sensual photo or movie, especially if it is artistic and doesn't show sadism or power trips, etc.
I think the old fashioned idea that a husband looking at porn is some kind of unfaithfulness to his wife is just a reflection of her own insecurity that she needs to deal with, not project onto him. Porn is only something to worry about if he looks at it INSTEAD of spending time with her. Then it could be an addiction, or something wrong with the marriage that has less to do with porn and more to do with a lack of intimacy and mutual attraction.
2007-09-10 22:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only a problem if he tries to hide it. If he can't let you be aware that he has the desire to look at other naked women, then it's a problem. If he tries to hide it then he's sneaky and there's no telling what else he might be doing or would do.
2007-09-09 11:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by meme1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah, if i had a boyfriend i would be gay, that would really bother m... oh wait, your asking women arent you?
guys are visual, we were born that way. get over it.
as long as he doesnt say things like " wow! her's are so much bigger then yours !" or "i wish you were that thin" or" i bet she is only 12" there is nothing to worry bout.
download some pics of men.
2007-09-09 11:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I think on this one? I think that if a man really and truly is satisfied with who he is with, he shouldn't NEED to look at anyone else in that way. It's a turn-off, disrespectful and kind of a tear at self-esteem for a lot of women!
2007-09-09 11:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband doesn't do that ... at least in 20 years I've never caught him.
A friend once told me her mother had a saying: "I don't care where my man gets his appetite, as long as he eats at home."
2007-09-09 11:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as thats all he's doing. Men get turned on by this stuff so reap the rewards and don't let it bug you. It doesn't make him any less in love with you.
2007-09-09 11:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Moe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Because he is looking at a woman he will NEVER be able to get anyway so I could care less. (ha ha) Seriously it doesnt take anything away from my woman hood for him to look...now if he touches another...ITS on!!!
2007-09-09 11:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No it doesn't bother me. As a matter of fact I point them out to him.....
2007-09-09 11:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by tammie h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.... he knows those women would never consider doing him. Just let them have their fun. Atleast he loves you.
2007-09-09 11:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋