okay, well about 2-3 weeks ago, my bf of 3 years dumps me. the last day i saw him we made love and tells me how much he loves and cares about me. then a few days goes by and he calls me (we live 30 miles apart and talk on the phone when we don't see each other) and tells me he doesn't love me anymore, and that he hasn't in a long time/used and lied to me. tells me to stop crying, it was ONLY 3 yrs! so im like wtf? well, the night he did it, he was online cybering with some girls and telling them how happy he was to dump/use me. then a week after that my friend sends me a site hes on where hes putting himself out there for sex...saying all he really wants is one night stands/etc. so im in complete SHOCK. well i was at the mall in the town he lives in cause my dad lives there, and and i went to use the bathroom, it was outta order. so i walk next door to the movie theatre and hes there with our mutal friend and her sister. he didn't seem too happy, she was kinda holding onto him with her
2007-09-09 04:18:26 · 9 answers · asked by heartbroken</3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
legs over him and he didn't seem to be too afectionate. then when he sees me(i tried to get out without him seeing me upset/miserable) they were whispering to each other and laughing about me..and then they went to get consessions and left and so i felt terrible. im completly devastated. he told me he still cared for me, just wanted to see what else was out there before he was tied down. he wouldn't even go with me to the doctor because i thought i was pregnant, he said it was my fault and problem and if i didn't get rid of it, he'd kill himself. well im not thankfully... well, her myspace says shes in a realtionship so I don't know if their together and i dunno what to do? i don't want him to be happy! when will he realize what hes done and what a mistake hes made? is she his rebound girl/transition girl? i just want him to come to me and tell me what a mistake hes made! is he really happy or does he know how hes messed up? if so, when will he admit it?
2007-09-09 04:19:16 · update #1
why would you want a PIG like that to come back to you, i wouldn't want an apology or an explanation because there is no excuse, you heard how he was talking about you, that guys is USING girls for sex he doesn't care or LOVE them. hopefully KARMA will do her thing and he'll catch some deadly STD's. about the baby, well that explains alot about his character, just because the woman has to care and carry the child doesn't mean the man is left in the dark, him saying its your fault and problem was one of the stupidest things i have EVER heard, its takes two to tango, that could have been his flesh and blood he denied on the spot. leave him be, let him sleep around like the nasty dog he is, you deserve better.
2007-09-09 04:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 10:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, he really is not worth being upset about, he hurt you and the way he has been acting with those other girls just shows what an immature piece of c r a p he is. I know it will be hard to get over him, just stop going on to any sites of his, and cut all contact with him. You can do so much better, trust me....
2007-09-09 04:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want this loser back? He admitted he lied to you, used you, and dumped you over the phone like a total jerk! On top of that, he's putting himself out over the internet for one night stands.
He'll figure out he screwed up, but it'll probably take years for him to grow up. By then you'll have found someone better. Forget him. He's not worth the time nor the tears.
There's someone out there for you who is worth your time and energy, don't waste it on this loser.
2007-09-09 04:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by LolaC☼ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not made a mistake. He's done what will make him happy. He's following his heart. He told you he didn't want to be tied down and that he wanted to try different things first. And he's doing it. Why hate him for being straight up iwth you?
He's not for you. Go find a guy that's a better match.
2007-09-09 04:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for you have felt terrible and devastated. Since he has already said that he does not love anymore,you should brace up and stop running after him.
2007-09-09 04:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should fight fire with fire go out with a guy and try to show him you dont care and ur over it eventually he will be very jealous mad and also feel very sad and dumb all though it might sound shallow and so oldschool but jealosy does work.But i also think u should forget of him and date other guys you should go ahead and date a guy now fall so in love with him youll forget of ur ex.
2007-09-09 04:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
İ think you should just forget this guy, he's not worth you. He sounds like trash to me.
2007-09-09 04:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Pisces20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on. You deserve better.
2007-09-09 04:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋