I had an arument with my girl. I told her she reminds me of the scarecrow on the wizard of oz and I told her Ive seen mosquito bites thats bigger then her breast. She told me I need to go back diapers
2007-09-09 04:07:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think she would take me back?
2007-09-09 05:14:28 · update #1
Dude, you blew it. You NEVER EVER tell someone you care about things that are hurtful like that. Arguments happen, but leave the personal attacks out. Those are worse than hitting her.... At least those bruises would have healed, but the emotional scars you could have left could last for years. Quit being a punk,and grow up.
2007-09-17 00:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Rav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
louiej...I think you chose the wrong character from the Wizard of Oz to compare her to, and then you wonder why she suggested you go back to diapers LOL Basically, you implied she was unattractive, scary and looked similar to wooden sticks with old, tattered clothes, straw hair, and that she could scare away even the meanest of crows! What sort of thing is that to imply to your girl??? And to compare her boobs to mosquito bites??? LOL So what, they may be small, but, more than a mouthful is a waste louiej! How would you react if she told you that she hates to see you naked because she's alway's afraid she would die laughing?? You should have been kinder to her in your words if you expected to keep her as your girl, regardless of the situation. Your comments were so unflattering to her, and trust me, she won't forget you said that to her. Will she take you back?? LOL I hope not, 'cause I sure wouldn't!!
2007-09-17 07:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real jerk. Grow up and don't be hurtful. In other words, when you argue don't bring other things into the argument-it only makes things worse. If things aren't working you don't have to have a major fight to end it. At that point it is obvious it's not working- most relationships in your life won't work. It's OK, move on. Remember, at some point you had feelings for her and leave it at that-be a man! One of lifes learning experiences- make it a positive and learn. How'd you feel if she told you your manhood was a joke. You might not forget that so easy.
2007-09-17 10:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by G Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude how immature can one be.....you actually told the girl her breast were smaller than mosquito bites...lol...great way to keep your girl..man ...all males can learn something from you ...how to lose your girl in one sentence or less...she should have told you to come back when your balls dropped...honestly if she comes back to you she is crazy no doubt and no offense meant...but seriously you need to like beg for real if you want the girl back...you completely dissed her breast ..apart of what she looks like...which she probably already had issues with.....*laughing* sorry i keep trying to picture what i would do if my bf ever came to me with some BS like that ...lol...i'd be like yeah well you could use a bigger male part yourself but hey we don't always get what we want now do we...beg grovel apologize...lol..probably traumatized the poor girl
2007-09-17 00:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you were kidding but words can hurt if you haven't figured that out yet, honey.
You are not sure what your girlfriend meant by diapers? She's saying to stop acting like a whiny immature baby and grow up mentally.
If you love your girlfriend, respect or she'll show you the door. For real
2007-09-17 03:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you BOTH need to grow up a lot, to have an argument and resort to hurtful remarks is not the way to win anything, when you both learn the fine art of discussing things without being deliberately mean or hurtful you will both be ready for a relationship
2007-09-17 05:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...
Don't overtly attack your girlfriends physiqe...
If you really want to hurt her, subtly ask if she;
"Ment to look so old at such a young age."
"Really thinks 'that' is still in fashion."
etc...
The beautiful thing about womens minds is that if you gently plant the subtlest seed of doubt, they will quickly cultivate a whole forest of woe. In most cases they'll even keep it with them after you break up.
Those were really some lame insults. She was saying that you're immature. Next time just tell her that she's just like her mother. ...Body Blow!
2007-09-17 10:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by pickler_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she believes you are immature and being a baby. Honestly it depends on her if she would take you back but i definitely wouldn't and don't think she should take back a person who would say those things.
2007-09-17 01:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are rude! of course not, I don't blame her for dumping your dumba**. It's guys like you that don't deserve to have someone special in your life. Grow up and get some respect!
2007-09-17 10:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by robink71668 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she says that she means you're being an immature baby. if my man said that to me, i wouldn't take him back. what you said was really crappy and if you want her to take you back you'll really need to do something to make up for it and cut out the insults. insulting your loved ones does not make for a happy relationship.
2007-09-17 09:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋