my friend denise well im 14 shes like 30 anyways,she buys me ciggarettes this past week my dad asked if i smoked i said yes hes like who buys them for you,denise? i said what do you think and this morning hes being real mean to me he said i could call child portective because shes buying the i said you wouldnt i got all teary,he said im gonna and i said no dont dad,dont! and idk if he is or not but wht will happen to her!?
2007-09-09 03:52:30 · 11 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He needs to call the police, not CPS...Its against the law for her to buy you smokes...
2007-09-09 04:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all why is a 30 year old hanging around with a 14 year old CHILD I see a problem with that. Giving minors cigarettes is against the law and If I was your dad I would do the same. That is why so many of the young people are out drinking and carrying on is because of stupid adults that think they have a right to give someone Else's child something. I hope her but goes to jail she does need to learn what she did was not all right.
2007-09-09 04:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by ~~Just me~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicky,
She gets charged for contributing to the delinquency of a minor ..... there are other charges that can be brought as well ..... in short .. parents may not know everything, or make decisions that you don't care for ... but in this case your father "I'm guessing .. wanted you to have a little adult girl time with Denise" , . . . but he didn't think she would so over step the bounds by introducing your to the adult world with it's vices in such a way.
I bet he thought she was help you with girl questions and be a good friend. Good friends don't do things like that .... she needs to be held accountable for her poor judgment.
Giving a kid these days is right up there with cocaine or Porn movies ..... a definite no- no.
2007-09-09 04:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will be arrested for contributing to the delinquency of a minor. It is against the law for her to buy you cigarettes, drugs and alcohol. She could face jail time and a huge fine. What is a 30 year old doing that to a 14 year old for? Something is not right. What could you possibly have in common with a 30 year old? Your dad should call the cops.
2007-09-09 04:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What she did is illegal, and if he reports her she'll face legal consequences. In most states it's a felony to provide controlled substances to a minor, so she'll lose her license so she won't be able to drive, she'll have a felony conviction on her record (which will make it hard for her to find or keep a job) she'll have to do time in prison (not jail, that's for misdemeanors) or probation, and she'll probably have to pay thousands of dollars in fines, which will be hard since she can lose her job for felony convictions. If you care about your friend, you better not let her do this for you anymore.
2007-09-09 04:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by awakeatdawn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She will be charged with contributing to a minor.Please if you would, tell me why you are hanging out with someone twice your age? It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship,But don't be mad at your dad, I'm sure he is just concerned for your welfare.
2007-09-09 04:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Debby w C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be arrested, and deservedly so. She's a grown woman who knows the consequences of her actions. Better stick with Dad, honey, this woman is NO friend of yours! Apologize to Dad and tell him you will choose better friends in the future...and do so!
2007-09-09 03:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by red 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need a friend your own age, And she shouldn't have bought you cigs. And your Dad has a right to be mad at her. What will she buy you next ?
2007-09-09 04:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Joan f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and let me guess you said I'm gonna post a stupid question on yahoo answers just to get attention because Im 14 and stupid..................................................but if you are serious you still r stupid for smoking if my kids did that I would beat there behind so bad they'd be doing more than crying an then I'd kick themm out and call child services on myself
2007-09-09 04:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good, she should get in trouble. She was beyond wrong to do that. He's not being mean. He's upset because he loves you and wants you to be healthy.
2007-09-09 04:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋