i am in a relation since 3 mnths n its been nice in the first half but then its been really bad. i mean its jus sex n sex i dunno how do i tell him no he takes me to his friends houses everyday n i have do it wid him n his friend as well now i have already had sex with his 4 friends n him n its really tiering how do i leave him he says he'll tell my family if i do so??
plzzzzz help?? i want to get rid of this
2007-09-09 03:49:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont avoid this read this carefully this might help u..pls pls pls
just tell him that yesterday night u have told ur mom about this situation ...or tell ur parents that this man love me from last 31/2months he had also proposed u and u have said him no but he had kept on proposing u but u said no means no so to remove the anger he is telling me that he will come to my place and tell all this nonsense that i have been in a sex with his friends
if u r able then take ur friend to ur home and before taking him home(girlfriend)tell her that u have to say that this man had proposed me and i have told him no and even he had came so many time in front to propose him ..or do one thing tell her that if u will go to my house and talk about this then mind u i will also b going to b at ur place to let ur parents know how much u respect the girls feeling but try to make out with how many girls he have done this before u just as a prof to show his parents i m sure he don't want his parents know what he is doing....1st try to talk about this before ur parents if he doesn't listen to u then do the same he have done to u ok
i m just trying to sort out ur problem if u feel like i have helped u then this will b the greatest gift god
i will pray to god that he gives u the strength to face this problem and remove u from this matter as soon as possible
i m always there to help u ...ok bye
god bless u.....
2007-09-09 22:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by monika m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U had the right 2 say no the 1st time. Sounds like u wanted it tho cause no1 can make u do it unless u wanted it.
I don't know ur age, but u can't be afraid 2 stand up 4 urself and take the heat, no matter what the punishment maybe. That is if u really want out of it.
if ur serious tho, get out and tell him. im sure there's better men out there that will treat u better.
As 4 the sex all the time, well girl there r men and woman out there that does enjoy it very much, including myself. Morning, noon, and night is nice, but if nightly is all u get guess, even I'd have 2 live with it.
2007-09-09 14:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by drillsgt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have committed the blunder:
Even now you are not interested to get ride of from this with whole hearted
anyhow without any fear stop all these nonsense
change your place of residence for a while say 6 months
it must be known only to your parents
go and stay in a good "ashram" for get all do some meditation
then things will change automatically
2007-09-09 21:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you are in a mess, but there is a way out of this. If he really cared about you he wouldn't want to share you with anyone. It's your body girlfriend he can't MAKE you do anything you don't want to. Stand up and get a backbone because you are better than this and know it's wrong or you wouldn't be asking questions about it. Good luck!!!!!
2007-09-09 17:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Notbusy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think he is emotionally blackmailing you . He doesn't love you . He doesn't trust you. He was just physically atrracted to you. What you thought to be love was lust. He needs Psychological counselling. He doesn't have rights to misbehave with you. Actually, it's your fault . Now, what you can do is just avoid him completely. Don't even look at him. Tell your parents instead of him telling them. Tell them it was the worst mistake of your life. you are sorry for that and will never do it again.
2007-09-09 11:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello naughty princess,
is a story i can not beliebe when i reading...
girl, can i tell you like this?
how old you are, please write this...
i love india and pakistan...
am from switzerland... i was thinking stories like this happen only in america and europa...
it is not possible...
girl, please dont let you do this, that anyone is using you...
you must be pretty girl... i feel it....
am mother of two boys, so am very sad for you.
it must be that you are falling in love with your boyfriend and now you are not free, to tell him not to do things with his friends...
girl, quickly leave this man, very quickly,
this what is happen is not normal... is not normal....
here in switzerland, i would tell you even to go to police
and making annouce.
when you can, talk with your mother and tell her what you can, then she helps you the best...
live is such a fake sometimes my girl...
dont beliebe all, you are free.
nobody can use you, please.
you can not see this man anymore,
tell him that you are ill, stay in home, then you find
the moment to tell to your mother, too with your father
when you can....
for sure they will not be happy, but they will help you quickly, am so sure, i would do the same...
wish you the very best, when you need more help, so write on my privat mail, you can see it....
go out of this story girl...
all luck from switzerland
2007-09-09 17:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by sascia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you made your bed...now you have to lie in it. Hopfully you can start doing that alone! Grow up and face the fact that your man is a pimp! Why did you let this happen in the 1st place? Get out of this "relationship" NOW!!!
2007-09-09 11:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by avery & aj's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the relationship NOW!!!
there is nothing to be afraid of. Even if he tells your family, they will be angry and upset with you initially but then they will always be there by your side. Dont worry and leave this jerk and a pimp of the bf that you have. before leaving kick him in his balls if thats possible.
2007-09-12 02:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being exploited due to your own weakness of not being able to say "no".Now you should make yourself strong and stop forthwith any relationship with the guy.The threat of exposing you to your family appears a bluff which blackmailers seldom dare.
2007-09-09 11:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him you're not afraid of your family knowing. you tell him he's a bastard for even making that kind of a threat. then you leave. i can guarantee he wont tell your family. if he's smart he'll know that they'll rip his head off when he tells them that he's having sex with you 24/7. dont be afraid to leave that scum. really, think about what i just said. ~Ricky~
2007-09-09 10:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋