well, 2 yrs ago, i hd a bf (YEL), but after a month and a half we broke up, because our relationship is i think is nonsense when we are tgether he can't talk to me straight he is so shy to talk to me so i broke up with him, and after that, i am starting to fall wit this guy(JEM), and he he likes me too, so when we fall deeply for each other, i bcame his gf and we loved each other so much, but i admit that i am really impressed and attracted to yel, but i really love my bf(jem) so much, but 3months ago we broke up but until now i still love him so much.. now,yel still loves me, i love jem so much but i dont want yel to go,i am so selfish.. i dont know, but when i left yel i realized that i am so stupid but the one i love is jem, so, what feelings i am having right now for yel? i am so stupid =(
2007-09-09 03:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yel promised me that he will love me forever.. is it possible for him not to break his promise?
2007-09-09 03:49:31 · update #1
and i know that i should choose yel than jem, but i just couldnt!
2007-09-09 03:54:38 · update #2
last year, YEL is leaving the country with his family,but he just back out because he said he love me so much and he just can't leave me
2007-09-09 03:57:52 · update #3
sounds like you really need to think about your priorities here, to be in love with 2 people is difficult,think hard about who you will be content to grow old with, who will be there for you when you are 80 yrs. old and need help getting up out of bed in the morning.always remember that looks will fade with age and the sex will taper off after awhile, you need someone who will love you still if you gain 100 lbs, or have a breast removed after a bout with cancer, etc.when you figure out which one will be a better life long partner you will have reached the right decision
2007-09-16 22:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt choose the one that you love the most or any of that, you should go with the guy that loves you the most, if you broke up with (YEL) 3 months ago and he still loves you then thats deep, i wanna see (JEM) try nd love after a 3 month break up, think about it he probably wont since most guys arent like (YEL).
Anything is possible he could break his promise, because youll be spending so much time with (JEM) that he cant do anything (YEL) so hell have to get over you soon, so i sugjest you choose the one who really loves you soon.
2007-09-09 10:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love with two people is difficult and it will tear you apart unless you resolve this soon. You broke up with Yel for a reason, and you moved on. You're hurting after breaking up with Jem, and you're looking for someone to fill the void. You need to put both of them out of your mind and move forward. Looking back won't help the situation. Best wishes.
2007-09-09 10:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must think of who you like and love more - YEL or JEM? If you love somebody truly, you must really try to be in a good contact with your beloved. Why havent you tried to correct our relationship with Yel? Why haven you tried to find reasons why he behaved like that? You should have tried to take care of your relationship with him. Now you must decide who you like more. Good luck! :)
Ah, by the way - how old are you?
2007-09-09 11:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just want yel but you don't want to love him back. It's like having a dog - there's responsibility, care and upkeep involved here and you aren't willing to take that on. When you were with yel, you broke up with him. Remember why you did that.
2007-09-09 10:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound really young. And no, he can't promise to love you forever, because he doesn't even know what the next 5 years will bring.
2007-09-09 10:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, your in a mess. No, you aren't stupid. I think maybe, it may be painful, but i think you need to forget about both of them and move on. This is troubeling you and stressing you out. You dont need this right now. Just move on.
2007-09-09 10:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like ya heads all scrwed up and no matter what anyone tells you here you and only you can decide remember that
2007-09-17 08:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋