Me and my girlfriend just had sex again last night. Is it a more of a chance that she will get pregnant since we did last sunday to?
2007-09-09 03:23:58 · 19 answers · asked by Trubles baby boy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Oh and she won't let me use a condom on her, she says it feels better for her. And we are both 16.
2007-09-09 10:32:34 · update #1
But she doesnt want to get pregnant, but at the same time she wants to have sex with me! I'm so confused on what she wants me to do.
2007-09-09 10:37:21 · update #2
BOY!!!! I'm pretty sure that the rest of the panel has screamed at you enough but I must say that your girlfriend is a big dummy and you are an even bigger dummy for consenting to her wishes. Yes sex does feel better without a condom but don't let that feeling be the cause of you getting an incurable disease. If you have sex without a condom too many times then your d*ck will fall off.
2007-09-17 03:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can use contraceptives every time, or you can be the very young father of a child you're not ready to parent. And that child will probably be raised by a 16 yo girl who is no better equipped to raise a healthy, intelligent child.
To be safe, you need TWO types of contraception. EVERY TIME.
She needs to look into birth control pills. Ask the school nurse or check planned parenthood. They give them out free or at a cheap price, and I don't think they can tell her parents.
Try a different type of condom. There are some that have thick ribs on the outside so they rub and arouse instead of being slick. Keep trying until you find one she likes. Make sure you have KY, though. If the condom gets dry, it's painful for the lady.
Gels and foams are easy, easy to use, come with applicators of their own, and don't even disrupt the action. A small price to pay to finish school before becoming a father.
Stop being a dodo. Use the stuff.
TX Mom
2007-09-15 23:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on her body and her ovulation. And anytime you engage in unprotected sex there is always a chance no matter if it was just once or a bunch of times that she will get pregnant. If you don't want to get her pregnant I'd suggest condoms next time, or even the Emergency pill for last night anyway. If you two are trying then I hope it works for you and just tell her to start charting her ovulation (tons of resources on the internet) so she can see when she is most fertile, etc. Good luck either way!
2007-09-09 10:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it almost sounds like she wants to get pregnant! Same thing happened to my husband when he was younger, and like most boys your age he thought with his head in the South instead of the right one. Now his son is 13 almost 14, and he had a hell of a time having to raise him, or at least try. He struggled with it. Honestly, talk with your g/f and find out what she would prefer, condoms, or labor/delivery in the hospital 9 months from now. Also, if she does become pregnant, what would be her plan, to have it and you 2 raise it and live happily ever after? It's nice to think that, also to want a child possibly from troubles in her home life, but the reality of having a kid is way harder. I'm 22 and I have 2 kids, one is 2 the other is 5 months, and although I love them, and wanted them I still almost wish I had waited. I'll also add that our first wasn't planned, we had used birth control (the pills,) faithfully within the same 10 min each morning, or rather I had. So nothing is guaranteed. Nothing is 100% in life, and maybe you should think things through, what you want, your dreams, your goals. How many can you accomplish, or how much harder would it be to accomplish, with a little baby. They grow quick, and they are very demanding! Selfish is something you youself will be unable to do, you'll constanty have to put the baby first.
2007-09-16 21:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Wanted*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to be on birth control if she doesnt want to get pregnant and if you dont want her to get pregnant then you should use a condom. she still wont use it then tell her no you dont want to have sex with her unless you use a condom and there is a such thing as girl condoms. but for most of all she should be on birth control. yes there is a big chance she could be pregnant if you are not having safe sex. if you feel comfortable enough have her talk to her mom or you talk to your parents.
2007-09-17 00:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. There are other forms of contraception. And You should NOT be having unprotected sex for any reason. Unwanted pregnancy could be the least of your worries. She should be using some form or birth control, and you NEED to use condoms whether she likes them or not!
You have your whole future in front of you at 16. Any plans you have for college could go "out the window" with an unwanted pregnancy right now. You are about to experience the most carefree, fun years of your life - please take precautions.
2007-09-09 21:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow Hold on! You are 16 and you are not using protection at all. Aren't you guys worried about any diseases,or infections. Even the bigger risks having a baby that young. Are you two ready for a baby. You should really use some kind of protection. You need to talk to your girlfriend, and chose a type of birth controll method, and quick. Before you two regret it. Good Luck
2007-09-15 21:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Happy, :) & Sad :( 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is someone isn't using their head if she gets pg there will be problems for both of you no college nothing you will be made to find a job and tyr and support her and you wil llive in poverty rest of your lives and she may or may not tend to stay with you you may later decide you don't love her why chance this. Sex is for when you can afford it and love someone one. not to bring a child into a marriage or whatever and nothign there for it. it takes money and time and love to go this distance. do you want no live for this new person. use condom if you are already to late i am sorry fo ryou but shes not thinking at all for either of you.
2007-09-12 22:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she can get preg. You need to use a condom no matter how it feels to her. If you're grown enough to have sex you're mature enough to use protection. There's all kinds of diseases out there and you don' t want a kid right now. You're too young to be parents so you need to step up and be a man and use a condom or don't have sex.
2007-09-17 08:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by MARCI P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run boy run that girl is dangerous .... it looks to me like she's trying to get pregnant perhaps to tie you down or for her own personal desires but start using condoms atleast until she starts taking birth control and even then i'd be very suspicious of her intentions. Being a teen parent is hard. Be careful, be smart and Good luck
2007-09-14 21:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kristie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋