MY HUSBAND'S BROTHER IS GETTING MARRIED IN DEC BUT THE FUTURE BRIDE HAS DONE NOTHING BUT CAUSE THIS FAMILY HELL, BUT THE BROTHER IS STILL W/ HER WHILE SHE DOING THIS. NO ONE ON MY HUSBAND SIDE LIKES HER B/C SHE IS A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR AND ALL SHE IS DOING IS RUNING HIS LIFE AND HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS FAMILY. WHAT DO WE DO TO STOP THIS WEDDING?
2007-09-09 00:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by miss_c_keen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well it is kind of my business b/c she has made it my business when it comes to her spreading lies about my family. But his family is going to try everything to stop this wedding
2007-09-09 01:37:41 · update #1
It's still none of your business....
If this girl is "running your family's lives" then you apparently have set no personal boundaries in your life....
most people have sense to know what personal boundaries are and don't cross them -- this girl doesn't seem to know.
if she does things you dont' like, let her know NOT IN YOUR HOME! tell her flat out that you expect her to behave appropriately in your home. if she's that dumb, then she needs to be told.
your brother in law apparently likes her, or wouldn't be letting her "ruin his life"... it' is HIS life, not yours.
unfortunately he picked out a girl who is a pain in the butt, and who no one likes.
we can't like everyone.
destress, gather your dignity and act like a lady. that's the best you can do.
2007-09-09 02:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way to fight people like that you have to fight fire with fire. and if the groom knows she is a liar and a b...tch and he is staying with her well than you might as well forget it.but if he is just blinded by love then get your self a actavated recorder and camara and get catch her doing these things .or at her batchoret party get her drunk and tip the striper a lil something and get it on tape.or hire a hittman
good luck
2007-09-09 07:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by imsotayken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest theres nothing you can do! you saw anything and they will acusse you of being jelous and will dislike you! sollet him realise that on his own. give a warning but in a nice way and tell him all your doing is lookin out for him. good luck
2007-09-09 08:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stop the wedding?....let the husband to be take over the brother role once the "I do's" are said..
2007-09-09 07:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to stop it. He made the choice to carry a ball and chain around his neck. Let him learn from it.
2007-09-09 07:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Its none of your business, your brother in law is happy with her. So be it.
2007-09-09 08:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 of them luckily i live 300 miles away from both. it is my bro's decision. they love these women unconditionally. the more you express your dislike for her to him it is just going to drive him further away from the family. you just have to learn to deal. and believe me it sucks.
2007-09-09 08:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kelli sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋