would I be better getting it done privately or by the NHS.It will be a late term one.Don't want to spend unnecessary money but at the sae time don't want to have a horrible experience.
2007-09-08 23:11:35 · 64 answers · asked by i'm-so-pretty-it-scares-me 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I DO NOT want an abortion If I hear anyone say that to me I will be very angry.I don't want one
2007-09-08 23:17:27 · update #1
I meant aDoption not abortion.I made am misteke that's how angry you made me.
2007-09-08 23:17:59 · update #2
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=15886353
terrel you can for 350 and hour
2007-09-08 23:19:10 · update #3
my second edit is refering to my first edit not to the question! I DO NOT want to give my baby up for ADOPTION.I DO want to have the foetus ABORTED
2007-09-09 01:31:30 · update #4
Why have an abortion when you can give the child to a less fortunate family who is unable to conceive a child of their own. No offense but if you was responsible enough to lay down with someone and create this baby you should be responsible enough to take care of the consequence that follow after.
2007-09-08 23:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by lexy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
how selfish of you to wait so long...if you were going to get an abortion, do it in the time span that makes it still somewhat humane...but to abort a late-term BABY is just plain old cruel. Suck it up, give birth to the baby and give it to people who actually have a heart, and keep your legs closed next time.
and this is what you wrote as an answer to an expecting mom who is 40 weeks along and looking to bring on labor:
for god's sake just be happy with what you have got and stop moaning.Remember the baby will come out when it's ready don't try and "bring it on". Most women go over.I the baby doesn't come it means it's not ready.Gawd some women are so selfish!
the only one selfish is you!!!...when i read the first 2 lines of your answer, I actually thought...wow this girl does have some brains and sounds like she actually cares....why don't you show more of that side of you!
2007-09-09 03:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by amandajoan75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have thought about it carefully and considered all the options, but unfortunately, an abortion no matter where you go will be a strain emotionally as well as physically.
But you are responsible for your actions in any case, and if you do not want to bring a child into the word for the right reasons then you have the right to do so as it is your body.
The NHS is free, and tells you of all your options, and they will also tell you what happens in the procedure and offer counselling as and when you need it. But if the feotus is over 18 - 22 weeks they will usually discourage this.
But good luck to you whatever you choose to do
2007-09-08 23:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by bubblyfool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't abort... and don't put up to adopt... grow up instead and realise that this is what females are born to do... procreate and nurture... and allow the child that has made you now a mother... be mothered with the love you obviously crave by the very way that you describe yourself in here... and come across to us.
I have had an abortion in my youth... and though I made the final decision... I was blackmailed into it by the father... and I never forgave myself then... and don't thirty-three years later... so I live with sadness and I speak out to stop others making my mistake. Mine was legal... NHS... it went badly wrong... and had to be done again a month later... twins... and one was missed... double whammy conscience... and I almost didn't survive... and they couldn't wake for a twelve hours... and it is the very same procedure that they use today... I know... because I keep myself informed...
Adoption is on the surface a seemingly generous act... but the child will never be able to understand why it wasn't wanted in the first place and will likely spend it's adult life looking for answers... needing to fit in... needing genetic background... never feeling whole... and you... you will either hid away... or upset yourslef and it... by all the latent emotions you are hiding from today by forcing this decision on yourself... if you seriously think a decision made today... with strangers... will remotely free your conscience... and clear your heart of this child... think again!
Older... wiser... and determined to prevent anyone from feeling the sort of pain that such decisions make... it will not be an end to end your current problems... it will be the beginning of the never ending journey of conscience... guilt... and hiding from yourself!
God bless... whatever you decide!
2007-09-08 23:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just have to say number one you really don't seem mature enough to be making any life altering decisions, speak to either your family or a councillor and definitely speak to your local GP. Unfortunately unless there is a risk to you if you continue with the pregnancy a doctor is rarely going to agree to perform a termination past the 3 month mark. I don't believe you meant adoption any more than the others do so first off you need to admit to that before you continue requesting advice. My second lot of wise advice is that you get yourself on the pill and invest in some condoms. Oh and if you are under-age please stop putting provocative images of yourself on the net encouraging Paedophiles, it is not something that we want happening especially us parents who worry so much about these animals getting at our children. Oh and Terrel you disgusting little sh@t what the hell did your parents do so wrong as to raise such a filthy little degenerate. You need to grow up both of you.
2007-09-09 00:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Walks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say late term-how late term? You've gone this far with the pregnancy-what has made you suddenly decide you want to abort? Don't get me wrong,I'm all for the right to choose-but I am thinking about the emotional and psychological things that have brought you to this point,and the psychological and emotional impact afterwards. Plus,it being a late term abortion,it will be tougher on your body. Go to your GP or your local women's clinic and discuss it in full with someone there. Tell them any thoughts or concerns you have-and then make your decision. Best of luck to you.
2007-09-08 23:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not giving your baby on adoption? Do you have any idea of the many families that suffer and struggle each day to have a baby? give your baby a chance to be loved and not force him to be a victim of your selfishness and arrogance.
Do you think you are the center of the world? If you wanted to keep "sooo pretttyyy" for life, why werent you more mature and took precautions for starters?.
Be an adult and be responsible now. Start by changing your selfish nick and delete that narcissist link from your question.
Are you looking for advice or are you looking for fans to your video?
That's kind of sick dont you think?
Sorry if this answer is not what you wanted to hear, but I doubt all the people here will only reply saying yes you are right do it, oh you are sooo prettyyy, how can you not faint when you look at yourself on the mirror and see such beauty????
PLEASE BE MATURE AND NOT SO SELFISH. IT IS SOMEBODY ELSE'S LIFE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.
WHEN YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANOTHER PERSON (DESPITE ITS SIZE) YOU NEED TO FORGET ABOUT YOU AND LOOK FURTHER.
THINK ABOUT THAT.
2007-09-11 08:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by deliciasyvariedades 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!!! i'd recognise that tash anywhere
Hey!!! its Yelena come on people this was the silly cow saying she was going for an abortion at 36 weeks a while back she also said that in her country it was legal and now shes talking about the nhs well i'm no expert but i'm prety sure that the nhs is only available in the non babarian countries
shes just baiting you all
shes a self obssesed narcasistic boot who cant look past her own moustache (probably cos her eyebrows are in the way)
and shes just tryna suck you all in with a web of lies and deceit
well were all guilty of giving her the attention she craves but i s'pose its alright as she must have some very special needs
now please stop falling for it
2007-09-09 22:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would say nhs, its going to be hard graft... lots of different people to see before they okay you for it but in the long term it will def be safer with the nhs unless you have huge amounts of money to pay for a brilliant private doc to do it, which you still wouldnt be able to tell 100% that they are kosher.
Decide what is right for you and ONLY you, do not let other people dictate you. I myself am pregnant and dont agree with abortion personally but i believe everyone has a right to make decisions by themselves. Have you spoken with the father and whatever you do bird... nhs or private take someone you trust 100% with you, your gunna feel pretty crap and low afterwards.
2007-09-09 05:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by gemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok everything you asked in your question refers to abortion then when people give you an honest answer you freak out and say that you made a mistake and you want to put the baby up for adoption then you post a picture of your boobs, just wanted to make sure i had that all right first.
ok your question pertains to abortion then you freak about adoption, why not own up to your mistake and take care of the baby put it up for adoption if you think that will be the best course of action. then maybe next time you will use your head and think before you sleep with another guy.
then you post the video and all i can think is your a whore. you want to know the best course of action to take with the baby you are having then you show off your body like that and basically invite tons of people to look at you hmmm yeah you are exactly whats wrong with society and their views on women.
2007-09-08 23:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bethanny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure an abortion is what you want?
I almost put my son up for adoption when I was 18 I am so glad I didn't cause now I am having trouble having anymore children it has been 3 years of trying and still not luck
My advice is to think seriously this may be your only chance at having kids
2007-09-08 23:17:10 · answer #11 · answered by bitsy_pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋