whats the saddest moment of u life?

Answer 1

There are a few....when my father died when I was 17, when my former boyfriend died in a car accident after being hit by a drunk driver, when I walked in on my husband who I loved with everything in me to find him having sex with another woman in my house, when my younger sister tried to kill herself and spent months in the state hospital....Probably the saddest though, and it may seem strange to say so, was when I was in the hospital having my daughter....It was the third day after I had had her (I had to stay in the hospital with her for 10 days), no one was coming to visit anymore because everyone was busy working and whatnot....they had been bringing her to me to stay all through the night, and then due to some complications, they kept her in the nursery on the third night. I had been devastated during my early pregnancy after leaving an abusive husband (whom I had known for 15 years and never had any clue things would turn out that way)..I had to move across the country to stay with my family, I had every pregnancy complication you can imagine, I was on total bedrest (so depressing!) for two months before I had her....At any rate, when I finally had her I was thrilled of course, but I watched all the other couples having babies and leaving to go home with them, and my child's father wasn't present (He has still never even seen her now).
I think it all hit me at once, all of these things combined with the fact that no one was visiting me, the nursery couldn't bring the baby to me that night and I wasn't allowed to get up and walk around yet to even go see her, and I don't think I ever felt so alone in my entire life....I cried for hours that night, like I have never cried in my entire life. I begged God to make everything okay so I could be a good mom by myself, I revisited everything that had ever gone wrong in my entire life that night....and I cried until I literally couldn't cry anymore. I only wanted to hold my baby, because I knew that deep down, she was going to be the most important thing to me from then on, and I wanted to see her, hold her, know she was okay.....No one would even tell me how she was, they would say they were going to get a report from the nursery and never came back. Finally, a nurse took pity on me and brought the baby to me about 5 that morning for a quick visit, and later God not only gave me the strength to be a good mother and totally turn my whole life around, but he also brought me a good partner, the best of everything I ever wanted, as well as being the best father I have ever seen, hands down. So it all turned out for the best, but that one night......was absolutely the saddest I have ever been in my life.

Answer 2

When I found out I was getting divorced and the initial papers filed gave me almost no visitation with my kids. I would just lay on a bed and cry and miss them so much. I had to go to court and file papers to get some time with them and it was just the saddest time of my life and that includes losing both of my parents at a fairly young age for them.

Answer 3

My saddest 2d improve into between 18 Dec 2006, whilst my husband died on the age of 40 and 18 could 2007 whilst my fascinating dogs, who were with me longer than my husband, died. I cried for over a year

Answer 4

When my son was in a very critical car crash...and I lost the son I loved so much. No more sunny smiles, spontaneous giggling laughter, and no more little repetitive jokes. Like his favorite "Hey Mom! What are ya eating under there?" and i would say "underwhere?". He would laugh so hard at me. So my saddest moment was the moment the silence came. The deafening silence of emptiness.

Answer 5

Probably just knowing that my brother and sister's best friend drowned at sixteen. I didn't know him personally, but that had a big impact on my life and it made me sad. I didn't like seeing that whole family go through the loss, or my siblings. I guess it made me so sad because my siblings are a part of me, and their friend dying just hit me hard.
This isn't a very common sad moment, but when I was about five I realized that my grandma was old. I realized that some day, she was going to die. I started crying as I lay in bed in the dark. My mom came in and asked why I was crying, and I just said, "grandma's gonna die!" She told me that she wasn't going to die, but of course that was just wishful thinking. Now that my grandma's even older, it's hard to forget that moment where I realize I would lose so much some day, but not knowing when.
I also felt sad when my parents got divorced and my dad left. I know a lot of people have gone through hell compared to that, but it just felt like my dad was leaving me. I see him a lot still, of course, but I miss seeing him every day.

Answer 6

I think probably one of the saddest moments of my life was yesterday...when I found out my dog died...

Answer 7

It's a toss-up between when my brother died unexpectedly at 33 or when my husband died in a car crash. They're both the saddest moments.

Answer 8

leavig romania. you lways know leaving a place is the saddest and ALL of my family lives there n i was born ther but i come back for school here and all the kids on the sstreet and ust everything. youthink, what if this is the last time i see my family?

Answer 9

The last day of school last year when I had 2 say bye to a girl (who was my perfect match) who was graduating and I knew Id never c her again. Imagine being a student and actually dreading the last day of school. Lifes never been the same...

Answer 10

My whole life has been a depressing black hole.
But i cried SOOOO hard when i found out i was moving to the other side of the country! Me & my best friend cried so hard...
Were losing touch now.
And i don't know how i can make it through the years without her.
No one else has ever cared about me.