One of my close friends gave me this picture of her and her new boyfriend:
http://i15.tinypic.com/523wfv6.jpg
I find it rather disgusting.
Ughh, it makes me feel sick...
She NEVER used to be this way && now It looks like she
is just getting used by this boy.
They've been dating for only a month & she is only sixteen.
Does she think I'm "impressed" by this picture or what?
And I don't know what to tell her. I'm really mad about this,
but I don't want to lose her as a friend. She really has changed
though. Should I just give up our friendship?
I don't know what to do...
2007-09-08 19:36:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She just used to be really nice. This is her first boyfriend and she acts like she is all "cool"
She always use to be shy and now she is taking it way too far with this new guy. It's not that I'm jealous.
I'm just hurt that she would act this way.
2007-09-08 19:43:47 · update #1
Gosh! That really is gross!, The onley aswer is.. well, you want to be a good freind right? And you really dont want her doing this right? well of coures you dont!! If you want to be a goodd freind, you gotta be strait with her, tell her what you think about that picture and how her boyfreind is treating her! If you just droped this, you wouldent be a very good freind, you might lose you freindship if you told her, but atleast your conchense wont hurt, and she will think twice about losing you and gaining him...
And if your skared to confront her, Im right behind you!!! And you`ll be in my prayers..
Good luck!
Samantha♥
2007-09-09 11:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by SamanthaDew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just "excited" about having this boyfriend. I know the picture is a bit much to send to a friend.
She probably wants to brag to you, and thats obviously why she sent you the picture.
You didnt really explain how she changed....but maybe you should just talk to her, and tell her how you feel...If she is a good friend she will probably understand!
2007-09-09 02:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Italia<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell her that she is completely losing who she is just for this guy that she'll only date probably for no more than a couple of months. then when he's gone, what is she going to do? it's very important that she doesn't change just for this temporary guy. you should definitely tell her how you feel. eventually, she will understand. she will know that you are her friend and only know what's good for her. hope it all works out!
2007-09-09 02:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by xLailaX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I feel that even though you're disgusted with whats going on between you and her, you should still let her know that your feelings have been hurt by the situation. Friends are always supposed to let eachother know whats going on... especially if one or the other feels that the friendship is in danger. my advice is to either call, e-mail, or if she lives nearby you, just go over there and talk to her face to face.
2007-09-09 02:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Colin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why she would give you such a picture in the first place. I don't really see why you are mad about it because you haven't provided information about how she was before. No offense but it kind of sounds like you're jealous.
2007-09-09 02:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by deviantmystery 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her the picture back and tell her that you do not think giving out pictures of a guy touching her intimately is something you want to keep.
2007-09-09 02:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm,changes will be there all the time in peoples life...honey i think its better if you just try to look for good things,i think she knows what she is doing and if you really know that something is wrong in her relationship just give her commands if she listen and she believe you as a good friend then everything will be fine,if she dont just stay in side and see how she will feel it later..............
2007-09-09 02:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Denni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not good for her and the only thing you can do is give a shoulder for her to cry on when something bad happens later on.ᦠyou seem a bit mature so hang in there and be of support to her ᦠthats a true friend
2007-09-09 02:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
thats totally retarded of her...i think that if she sends these things to you it will make you jealous and has a completely different effect...tell her what you feel in a polite and caring way and if she takes it the wrong way then thats her fault
2007-09-09 02:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
and now you just put this picture on the Internet....good job!
you were upset by the picture, so you decided to slap it on the Internet?
lose her as a friend. of course, if she knew that you were circulating this, she's going to end it anyway.
2007-09-09 02:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋