Someone would know exactly where you're coming from.. Instead of saying they do but don't really understand. But still try to tell you how you feel.... That really urks me when they incist there right in how I feel.....
2007-09-08 18:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
To be honest, I guess I just don't think about it anymore. It's nearly impossible for someone else to know what I'm feeling when most of the time it's hard for me to make it out myself, you know? I think I just got to the point of being happy just to have someone around who cares enough to at least try and understand.
2007-09-09 05:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly! So many people pretended to understand how I felt when my grandma died. She was my best friend and lived with me my whole life up until I was 12. You NEVER know how someone else is feeling in a situation...for me it was a whole range of things. Denial, anger, sadness, anxiety...I lost a huge part of myself and nobody could relate to that.
Then there were those who basically told me to get over it but hadn't had any major deaths of family members. You can't just "get over" something that big.
2007-09-08 18:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by darksideofthemoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that has always been one of my biggest pet peeves!! They are usually people who always think that they are right or they are just trying to move on to something that THEY think is more important. I just try to avoid those kind of people, even though it's not always easy to do. Good Luck
2007-09-08 18:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ginny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. I hate when people try to tell me how I feel.
2007-09-08 18:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ve ever looked at my questions and answers it would not be difficult to deduce that I have recently lost my soulmate who knew me EXACTLY and was always there for me and its never gonna happen again......
2007-09-08 22:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Juliette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i hate that but sometimes they may not want to know how i really feel so they dont bother asking me i guess the truth hurts
2007-09-09 02:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and add to that that they think they know what you will do in any given situation. And they get upset when you deviate from what they THINK is your norm!
2007-09-08 18:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
2007-09-08 18:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by Max A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're just trying to make you feel more comfortable, and they probally don't want to hear some long, drawn out rant.
2007-09-08 18:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by deidre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances increase when you explain yourself in a more coherent manner.
2007-09-08 18:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋