I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years already. We are both 28. We both love each other very much. she is getting frustrated that I don't want to have sex with her. She never had sex with anyone. I never had sex with anyone before too. I plan to never have sex. I kiss, foreplay, and hug her but that's it. Not sex. I think sex is perverted. I love her to death. I know she's the one for me. Do you think she will leave me in the future if I don't have sex with her? I know she loves me very much too.
2007-09-08 14:56:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes she well, UNDERSTAND that inorder for a relationship to last BOTH parties most be willing to grow with each other. That MEANS letting go of childish ideals and perceptions. Get over this pervert thing, its not going to fly and its going to HURT your relationship. I'm more then sure this isn't the only area you guys hang-up on so PLEASE try to use that in other areas. Just remember that you don't know the truth of this world, which is why you find an SO, so that you and her can try and figure it out, really too, looking at things as perverted or not, is sort of naive and childish, go have sex and let go of that... its immature... really....
2007-09-10 10:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋