Is it wrong if you are married and still use condoms.
Solely for the purpose of preventing pregnancy. Does he have
a right to be offended. It has nothing to do with infidelity, I just really don't want to get pregnant, but yet he insists on not using them, and he does not really want me to be on B.C.
I am also fearful of going with out protection because he always wants to ejaculate inside instead of pulling out. Is that normal??
2007-09-08 14:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
30 yr married here stick to ur guns and use them no man wants to use them tough stuff u WILL GET PREGO IF U DONT SO EITHER HE DOES OR HE GOES W/OUT and tell him now a baby will change everything u seem like the bright one here````men and there quirks~~~~keep it up gf
2007-09-08 14:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by ladysosureone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hhmmm, interesting first and foremost no it is not wrong to use condoms during marriage if you do not want to get pregnant!!!!!!! I have known some married couples to not use contraception during marriage. I find it hard that he would take offense to this. As a married couple, he should understand where you are coming from and willing to compromise for your sake!!! That's what marriage is abut, partnership. I've also found that some men find ejaculating inside of their partners somewhat of a turn on, but since he does not want you to use any protection either is kind of questioning??? You two should really talk about if and if he does not want to talk and just brushes it off as nothing, then I wouldn't let it go easy. Something is not up to par. There are however other methods of birth control that can be inserted into the vagina to assist with you not getting pregnant!
2007-09-08 14:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyes.brownskin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong just seems strange for people to get married & not have discusse BC first!
Since you guys arent on the same page this one is going to be a hard one, did you sit down & explain to him you dont want kids? you should and not when your having sex, pick a time when both of you are calm to discuss it. Also try planned parenthood or Ob/Gyn for other options if he wont wear the condoms, because ultimatly when you have a baby it's your body its coming out of & your life long responsiblity, Moms are usually the primary caregivers in the first months. If your not ready to be a Mom stick to your guns.
2007-09-08 14:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by "Angel" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know by now that condoms aren't very good birth control, in fact they are only 89% affective! There are people who get pregnant while using both a condom and the pill. I got pregnant even though me and my ex used a condom every time we had sex...so its not exactly affective...the only way you can absolutely prevent pregnancy is abstinance!
2007-09-08 14:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Freakgrl2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too bad you didn't discuss pregnancy and conception prevention before you got married.
2007-09-08 14:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn't use protection nor let you use any, you will divorce him.
He is not willing to be a good husband nor be responsible, then he doesn't deserve to be one.
Get rid of the jerk.
Sorry, but I can't believe his stupidity.
2007-09-08 14:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tara662 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Condom use is not just for single people. We use them all the time. No he doesnt like them but its use a glove or no love!!!
2007-09-08 14:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would put it very simple to him. Use it or no sex.
2007-09-08 14:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by colonk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋