My best friend is also my sons fathers brother. And last night we were hanging out and one thing lead to another and we kinda fooled around. I dont exactly know how to act around him. We were talking about dating before but we arent actually dating right now, we were attempting to take things slow. And now Im afraid that this was all a little too much for both of us and its gonna ruin our friendship or push us into a relationship that we arent fully ready for. What should I do??
2007-09-08 07:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he probably doesn't want his brother to find out that he slept with his ex. and what is the family going to think of him and you!
2007-09-08 07:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by momac78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out in your head what you want, and then you need to talk to him about what happened and what happens next. He could be feeing the same way that you are right now. There must be an attraction there, and you said that you have talked about dating but wanted to take it slow... just sit down with him and talk to him.. maybe say
" you know how I feel about you, and not that I am upset by what happened last night, but I think we went a little to far too fast. Lets slow it down and see what happens"
Hang in there!
2007-09-08 14:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by kAtTs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should have done last night if you felt all this, was say no. But you didn't, now you have to live with the consequences. I suggest you talk to him about it.
2007-09-08 14:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him be honost explain how you feel he will understand if you do get in to a relatiion ship take is slow step by step good luck :)
2007-09-08 14:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your kids uncle, correct....nothing good can come out of this
not even a friendship...cut your loses while you can.
2007-09-08 14:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by bwj1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋