Only for uncircumcised men. Would you recommend to circumcise newborns?

Question

I would like the opinion of uncircimzised men only. Would you recomend to cut baby's skin?? Im about to have my baby. Im not sure of what to do.

Thanks to you all for helping me decide. Thanks to everyone who took my question seriously and didnt offend me by calling it stupid , like whole_feelings did. I felt deeply insulted by his attitude towards my question. The question was specific for uncircimzized men because the babys father is circumsized already and I wanted to have a differen perspective on the topic. But there is just some people carring around too much arrogance. Mr whole_feelings would have liked me better to recieve his insult and dismiss it. But I think thats an easy way out. He is not advicing computers here. He is actually giving advice to people. He is a top contributor. I wouldnt like to get to that status by posting insulting opinions on peoples question. That not what I asked for. For everybody else thanks a lot . I have decided to let my kid decide for himself when he gets older.

Answer 1

I'm intact and I left my son the way he was born. Why change it? i have never had a problem and none of the intact members of my family have either that i know of.
If my son wants to get it done as an adult then that's his choice but why do I have the right to affect his future sex life against his will for no reason at all.
If you can watch the video link below of a boy being done and still get him done then I feel sorry for him.
Is his father intact? if he is then ask him if he has had any problems. If he isn't then please don't use the "he should look like dad" thing.
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Answer 2

I don't think you should. My boyfriend is uncircumcised and has never had any problem. He is not dirty and the skin is nice. Any girl who would have a problem with an uncircumcised man is not a girl worth that man's time.

Most men in the world are uncircumcised. Even in the USA, the rates of newborns being circumcised is about half-half, so your son will not be the "odd one out" or anything.

In addition, the protection against diseases which you hear about is over-rated. The diseases don't miraculously appear in uncircumcised men - to pick them up, they have to be having unsafe sex with an already infected person. Even if they have a slightly higher chance of getting something than a circumcised man, circumcised men still have a good chance of picking up a disease, so circumcision is not a replacement for using condoms and/or not sleeping around - which I hope you will teach your son to do anyway!

The foreskin on a baby is naturally attached and needs no special care - you don't need to retract it or use harsh cleaners - it is easier to look after than a surgical circumcision wound, and even girls' genitals.

I know a lot of people who were circumcised at birth and he regretted it. At least give your son the choice. It's his penis, not yours, and he will be living with it more. Yes, he will remember the pain if he chooses to get it done when he's older, but chances are he won't, and he will at least be having his own choice if he does. Just google foreskin restoration to see how many men regret that this irreversible procedure was done on them.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Don't get your baby circumcised. The owner of the penis should be the only one who makes the decision to get it cut or not. By the time he's old enough to have sex, the American attitude toward circumcision will probably have changed in favor of leaving it uncut.
Any woman who tells a man to get his skin cut is only thinking of herself. She probably doesn't deserve that man in the first place. And he needs to have the b@lls to tell her to take it as it is, or he's moving on to a girl who will respect him for what he is now.

Answer 5

This is a desision that is totally up to you and your own personal feeling about circumsizion. I would get the advise of some Peditricians get thier honest opionion find some new doctors. Personnally i plan to not have my dudes done and teach them how to correctly deal with thier units wash them every day with soap etc etc. if they deside to do it later it will be thier desision.


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P.S. and If your dude gets circed just becase his girlfriend cant deal with him being uncut let him know that he can kick her to the curb and to find a good girl that will like him for him not just his unit. there are plenty of girls that are not shallow and do go out with the guy not just his unit

Answer 6

i say don't do it.... am not circumsized and not being circumsized is great because it forces your kid in the future to learn more about his body and how to clean himself.... plus here in America people like circumcised men because of pop culture i mean yea yea infections and what not that's all you hear from everyone's mouth but is just people full of ignorance ..... you learn so much more when your not circumcised, about your body and how things work.... plus theres so many other reasons like the fore skin which helps keep the penis mouisterized and many other things..... i wanted to do it myself a long time ago because i thought i was odd..... but MOST PEOPLE in the world aren't circumcised is an american thing....... i suggest you search circumcised and uncircumcised you'll find lots of information on why is important to be uncircumcised theres many reasons and many guys who got circumsized regreat doing it they say they feel the difference........ i SAY BRING KNOWLEDGE TO YOUR KID NOT CIRCUMCISED... and to that other guy with his comment why would i put my life ont he line for a girl?> is still the same pleasure come on just dump her she is just being ignorant

Answer 7

Cletus: If your penis isn't right for this "girlfriend" now, how can you believe that anything else about you will ever be right for her? I say, You don't need a mutilation, you need a new girlfriend. Dump the castrating b!@&$

Answer 8

No! It is your son's penis, not yours, and HE should be the one to make this important decision. About 85% of the men in the world are uncut and get along just fine that way -- in fact, most of us prefer it that way. Very few men choose circumcision for themselves. (If they do, that is their right, as it's their penis.)

Your son will be born perfect, just the way God/nature made him. Don't mess with perfection.

Answer 9

Nah, leave the kid be.

When he grows up he can decide if he wants a foreskin or not.
Don't buy into all that "having a foreskin is dirty" bullsh*t.

Answer 10

No. I'll put it simple. Why should my kid have to go through an optional surgery that has risks right when he's born? I want to welcome him to a loving world; not a scalpel. And secondly, if you leave him uncircumcised he can get circumcised if he wishes later on; you're leaving him the benefit of being able to choose.

Below is some research. It includes studies, risks, statistics, and general information. I hope it's useful to you and helps you. Good luck with your boy! =) Circumcision is a traditionally Jewish and Muslim surgery, although it was introduced and encouraged to the Western, developed world (North America and Europe, but especially the USA) as a way to stop masturbation, especially with the help of Dr. Kellogg. (see link 1) However, although scientific studies have discovered that circumcision harms masturbation by up to over 60% (2), needless to say, it doesn’t completely stop masturbation. Many circumcised guys just find it more convenient to use a lube like KY or lotion as a result (3) since the typically moist foreskin (like the eyelids) is not there to rub the head of the penis with (4).

Most developed nations quickly rejected circumcision after noticing its ineffectiveness against masturbation (they were quite religious back then!), and as a result the United States remains the last developed nation doing it to a significant percentage of newborns. (5) This was done as a result of the for-profit American health care system promoting myths about benefits of circumcision (6), such as preventing penile cancer (6a, 6b), preventing HIV (6c, 6d) despite the USA being the developed nation with the highest HIV rates and circumcision rates (6e, 5), and preventing STDs (6d, 6f). As a result, circumcision now brings in hundreds of millions of dollars to doctors and the American health system. (7)

However, circumcision has been becoming less popular as years have passed by. In the 1960s over 90% of guys were circumcised in the USA, now circumcision rates are as low as 14% in some states. (8) More and more parents are discovering that circumcision carries more risks than benefits, and realize that by leaving their sons uncircumcised, their sons have the choice of choosing what they’d like, since the surgery is irreversible (you can't go back if you don't like it or if it goes wrong).

Circumcision risks include the loss of sexual pleasure according to multiple studies (2, 9, 10, 11). Those studies take into effect many sensation points, including the foreskin, and they involve many participants. There have been other studies that claim no difference, but they don’t even take into effect the nerve endings on the foreskin, which as seen in one study, are some of the most sensitive points on the penis (10). One study even found an increase in erectile dysfunction rates after circumcision (10a). In another study, it was found that females ended up reaching orgasm with and preferring uncircumcised males in 9 out of 10 cases (10b). In addition, circumcision is extremely painful on newborns (12, 13, 14), and you risk many bad conditions, such as a buried penis when too much foreskin is removed and limits the size of the penis (15), or adhesions or skin bridges that develop from the head to the shaft when the skin heals after the surgery (16), meatal stenosis [occurs in up to 10% of circumcised males!] when the opening of the penis becomes irritated from too much exposure and rubbing and begins to close up (17), and meatal ulcers (18). All those risks are, of course, not including the possibility of having too much skin removed, which can cause discomfort during erections due to lack of skin to allow the penis to expand, and could consequently cause a hairy penis by pulling pubic hair and skin to the shaft. Often a circumcision scar develops around the penis after circumcision. In addition, circumcision has negative effects on breastfeeding. (18)

To conclude, here is a link that describes the anatomy of the foreskin (19) and the development of the foreskin with infants, a link especially helpful for parents (19a). Ultimately, one survey found that although uncircumcised guys are a bit more satisfied percentage-wise, it’s within the margin of error. (20) The only difference is that those unsatisfied uncircumcised guys can simply get circumcised and end up satisfied either way. If you're cut or uncut and happy, you'll say that side is better. If you got cut later in life, you'll say cut because you had problems with your foreskin before. If you're cut and had something go wrong or wish to have had a choice, then you'll say uncut. One survey found that up to half of circumcised guys wished to have had the choice themselves (as in, been left uncircumcised and they could have chosen to get circumcised if they wished later on in life). That's a huge number. (21) That, along with the risks and negative effects that are being seen more with the help of the Internet, may be what is bringing down circumcision rates.