I have reason to be suspicious. I'm normally not a nosy wife, but something upsetting has come to my attention. Pleas help.
2007-09-08 05:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by kbear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh, dear....
I highly recommend you not start with the invaision of personal space...
Whatever has come to your attention you are going to have to deal with on the information you have.
His time on cyberspace is his own time. If he's fulfilling all of his husbandly responsibilites and duties, and what he does on the internet is your greatest concern, then barring him introducing a third party to your relationship, I'd leave it alone.
2007-09-08 05:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it depends on what it is, but really don't think you should be too paranoid, and start doing a lot of snooping around.
If it is just surfing porn, etc. it is not that big of a deal, but, if it is something serious, like developing a relationship with someone else on the internet, then you perhaps should investigate further. If it is not something that serious, just chill out a bit.
2007-09-08 05:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by madcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a hidden camera in the room where the computer is, and try to video tape what he does, other than that, you may have to log on to check his history to see what sites he visited, and also check for any files, pictures, videos, etc.
2007-09-08 05:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always seems honest open communication is a last resort. How about saying to hubby I am uncomfortable because I believe you are _______ and I think this because ___. He may lie but at least you are honest. If it is so bad you can't talk to him and you are sure its going on plan on leaving. A marriage without communication and honesty isn't worth being in.
2007-09-08 05:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Red Phantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful of what you ask......you might not like the answer!
Why don't you work on you relationship! Men are simple, you keep our stomachs full and our balls empty and we will do anything you want. If he is on the Internet doing "inappropriate things" (I'm guessing porn) maybe he is just taking care of his "Needs" because your not!
2007-09-08 05:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jonny B Bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can check the cookies on the computer or try the temporary internet files or maybe the history.
2007-09-08 21:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by hottieinda719 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is spy software that u can install on your PC and devices that you can get to attach on the back of the PC. Both of these will work just go to your local computer store and ask.
2007-09-08 06:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the 'temporary Internet file' and the 'cookies' and 'history'
These are copies of where he's been on the Internet, the day and the time.
2007-09-08 05:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you go into the main menu on your computer click to pull up the full main menu. select control panel depending on what program your using but it will always be some thing similar.
click on control panel and than click on Internet options or recent items again depending. but if these are empty when you try to go into them you know he is up to no good. good luck.
2007-09-08 05:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by nikki.j star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a free download that can access all conversations on your computer without logging into any account.
www.intellectualheaven.com/default.asp?BH=projects&H=yahdecode.htm
2007-09-08 05:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋