i have a friend who is black but she has only white friends. the black people at our school r all bad people who smoke and cuss. she acts like a white person 2. she never aknowledges it with her other friends though. i dont care that she is black but some of her other friends talk behind her back. sometimes she talks about it with me and asks me what she should do. what am i supposed 2 say?
2007-09-08 04:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
dont report me, i just want answers 2 a question like everybody else here.
2007-09-08 04:38:11 · update #1
Everyone has preferences regardless of shades of skin.
2007-09-08 04:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dressing up the boy as a princess won't make him gay, or a serial killer, or depressed as he gets older. He could be embarrassed with concepts from it yet who would not have any embarrassment from their young ones? If this replaced into any incorrect way around and a woman had to dress up in as a prince no one could say some thing. Is dressing up as a princess his concept or yours? It sounds like it rather is yours. My suggestion could in user-friendly terms ask him what he needs or take him down the dress isle and enable him %. a "boy" dress.
2016-10-10 04:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by luse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you remove the White & Black frome the question, there is only a person doing what she wants and socializing with the crowd she enjoys...so why not leave it at that?
2007-09-08 04:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by blaadedrums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to find friends that accept her for who she is and not what color her skin is. If her "friends" talk behind her back.......then they aren't true friends are they - they are racists hiding behind a "friendship".
PS - Obviously all the black people at your school aren't "bad".....that's a blanket statement. You need to take a harder look.
2007-09-08 04:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Freedspirit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
growing up i had a black girl who was a somewhat friend and she only hung around whites she married a white guy,nothing wrong with that.we called her black Judy.there son doesn't look white at all.of course people talk,they talk about everything.so what?everyone talks behind everyone elses back, thats life
2007-09-08 04:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 pts!! this is a dumb question. there's no such thing as acting white or black, unless you define whiteness & blackness in stereotypical, racist, derogatory terms. so, your question in general is very biased and racist. you are essentially saying that blackness is about smoking & cussing and whiteness is about all good, "normal" qualities. your friend isn't the problem...you & your stereotypical thinking are.
2007-09-08 04:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think you should respect her wishes/choices and tell her first and formost that she is a person in her own right, irrespective of her colour. That other 'blacks' talk about her [with malice I expect] is their problem - not hers - and just shows their lack of intellegence.
2007-09-08 04:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by alex s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its sad but most Black stereotypes are true.They smoke weed,drink 40 ounce malt liquor,try to pimp hoes,talk loud,floss their 30 inch rims,while livin @ home with Big Momma...
2007-09-08 04:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
tell her to confront the people talking behind her back.
2007-09-08 04:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to be herself. In the long run, she's going to be better off in the future. Tell her to live well is the best revenge.
2007-09-08 04:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by punch 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋