i am a girl soon will be 20, but life's all dead... i was average kid have brains but never scored extremely good, dumb in sports or any extra curricular, never saw mom and dad getting along... elder bro is thr but he got his life and not living with us meanwhile.
i dont see any enthusiasm for life in my parents... they keep blaming things.., each other and me..., i appreciate they did lot for me and brother... but thats all materialistic... they love me but dont understand a bit... they dont understnd my life's different. if they had painful past so did we kids with them...
i want them to start living in present but i being shut up by them.
i am not a very social person... i dont make lot frnz... my college mates are hypocrites corrupted...
i want to live life... whenever i stay at home for few days when college is off... my whole eneegy is drained... and am left with question "what should be done?"
can any1 suggest?
thanks.
2007-09-08 01:57:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
how can i be happy enthusiastic filled with life? when my dear ones r not? its all bookish tht u can be happy inspite of bad conditions... ya possible if the matter is related only to YOU!
2007-09-08 02:09:06 · update #1
Look at each day as a blessing. There are other people who live worse lives than you. In order to make friends, i suggest you get into the things you are interested in. If you like photography, take a photography class you may make some friends! If you are not happy with your current life, i suggest you start over as a new person. try new things, inspire others, and most of all, realize that what happened as a child wasn't because of you, and though its hard to get over, its essential if you want to live a fulfilling life.
2007-09-08 02:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by totallysmiles0109 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their are few things on which you have no control and the problem with you is you do not have a happy family.
There are always problem in everyones family there is nothing like a perfectly happy family. Think about those who do not have parents and those whose parents are seperated , so how much their sufferings will be.
You should thank your destiny that at least you have got a family fighting and vlaming you but still they are bearing your responsbilities.
Dont take a pessimist attitude instead think positive and find out ways how can you bring your family together.you are not a kid now and you can do something to bring your family together find sopme common link through which you can bring your family oin a common platform and increase the bondings.
Dont try to run away from your problems by living away from your family. talk to your parents, may be you are the cause that they are still together so use your value to bridge the differences between them.
Try to think positive that is the best you can do and take incremental approach to do bring positiveness in your family.
2007-09-08 02:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by amit a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you feel depressed, But then again maybe not. Heres what I suggest try to talk to a therapist or someone at the college and maybe they can help you.
Man life is to short and I suggest you do stuff you enjoy,maybe getting a part time job as well. Try to go to library,bowling, or hang around people or situations that make you comfortable.
Have good faith, maybe change your eatting habit too, read a book. There is so much to do in life that affects just about everyone. You know what I do, I read, walk, maybe you can get a fish, or volunteer or something.
I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you one thing listen to music, dance, be yourself that is important. There is something I do, I live by the rhythm of my own heart.
I would try to talk to someone about this again but thats up to you, maybe you can join a group or something take up something new.
I would suggest this keep real busy, study.
Good luck take care of you first, and you will feel better.
2007-09-08 02:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your expectations for life were too high ,,, most peoples are ,, slow down a little expect trouble and disapointment , and watch your life live up to your expectations , Sorry I couldn't resist ,, truth is you need to get out into the world explore , I always sugest headphones and a good CD then go for a walk and just look around and notice whats going on everywhere , even in the trees , look at life from another point of view ,, remove yourself , from your life for just a short time every day ,, say 30 minuets ,,
2007-09-08 02:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let yourself be bummed out. Only you can decide on your mood for that day, so I suggest that you decide that you're going to be in a good mood and nothing is going to spoil this for you. Only go home if you absolutely have to....no use in putting yourself in a no win situation. Best of luck to you.
2007-09-08 02:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like what you are doing at college?
Maybe you need think about what you want from life.
When you were younger you werent in control of your life but now you are old enough to create your own world.
and change it anyway you want.
2007-09-08 02:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by mixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need an adventure.
If you have some money you ought to go to a place that you always wanted.
If home takes you life's energy and your magic then try someplace else!
2007-09-08 02:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psychologist.
2007-09-08 10:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have your health...a lot of people have lost loved ones due to illness or accidents and here u are moaning about how ..somthing or other you are?
Take ur life and live it.
2007-09-08 02:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your young years are the time to go out every weekend socialise..try to go to clubs,pubs, bars maybe go see someone about how u feel.
go on vacation to somwhere TOTALLY deiffernt.
2007-09-08 02:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by bahhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋