Pretty much all my friends are thin and have small boobs. I'm not thin, or fat, I'm just average, but I have pretty big boobs for my height and frame.
I know it's probably just me being critical of myself, but I feel like because my friends have a completly different body type than me, I look almost slutty in comparison? I feel like anytime I wear a tighter or low cut shirt, people look at me and then look at my friends and then automatically assume I'm the easy chick. I even feel like my friends think that sometimes..
I've gotten so frustrated about it that now I mostly wear t-shirts and hoodies, and I hate going shopping because every time I try anything on I just get worried about it.
Does anyone have any suggestions for me? I just want to build my confidence...and get to a place where I can stop feeling ashamed of myself.
2007-09-08 00:13:03 · 9 answers · asked by Ann V 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I love how people mention that people get boob jobs to have bigger breasts and that we should just deal with our size.
I was huge as a kid, I hated the fact I was bigger than all the other girls. I'd always wear baggy shirts and I slouch. I hated the teasing even more.
You can wear minimizer bras to kind of squoosh your breasts to look smaller. Get professionally sized at Nordstroms JCPenney or Sears (NOT victoria secret, they size incorrectly) since most of us are in the wrong size bra.
Love the size you are, but not because "everyone else gets implants". As long as you do not have any back pain or health problems due to your breasts your size is fine, but if you would happen to get back pain you can get something done about it.
2007-09-08 04:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel shame for what you were given naturally. I have had the same size since I was 14 and this is natural. I don't feel bad about it at all. the great thing about having breats that are a B cup is that they don't shake all over when I run, jump rope, etc which I do regularly when I jog and also work out at the gym. Jumping rope is one o0f the best cardio exercises you can give yourself. As to this boyfriend, you don't need bigger breasts, you need to lose this sorry excuse for a boyfriend and find one who totally loves you just the way you are. And tell him the reason you're breaking up is because he doesn't have a fit enough body, is not on your intellectual level and you need someone who can follow you when you talk of world events and your other hobbies and he is also quite selfish.
2016-04-03 10:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guarentee that if all your friends had big boobs and you didn't you would want them. People always want what they don't have.
Who cares what other people think about you? Some jerk thinks you're an easy target... just hit him with a smart remark about how his pickup lines are disgusting or embarassing. Guys are stupid.
You need to be happy with who you are and you need to be comfortable with your body. You can flaunt your figure without dressing trashy and wearing low cut shirts. I've got B cups and my sisters have D's. They're always wearing low cut stuff and I think it's a little distasteful. Always stick to this motto: Just because something is in style, doesn't mean it's your style. Dress to look good, not to be popular or to show off parts of your body. If you look good in your clothes, your confidence will rise. And don't be afraid to tell guys they're losers. Good luck.
2007-09-08 01:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by gyoza1216 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have large boobs(34-36D) for my size and i love them. I am 5'3ish and curvey, im not thin but im not fat...i am healthy!. I have been this way since i was 12, i am 21 now..at 1st it sucked because none of my friends devolped yet...as i got to be about 15-16 i realized that a woman should be cruvy and not straight like a beam pole{unless of course its herditary} And now all my friend are jealous of my boobs...the are always asking me to donate..lol
if u love your body then dont care about how other precieve you! All that matters is how you feel about yourself!
and plus guys like boobs!...
2007-09-08 06:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE PROUD!
You might not want to think of it as a good advantage but there are people who always wish to have boobs, or touch real good ones :-P
As long as they r not saggy, hun, show off what you have or later you might regret it.
The other girls just get jealous with you. And being out-of-the-crowd is not such a shame. I hope you feel better soon, beauty!
2007-09-08 00:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Schatzi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confidence comes from within girl
look straight as if u have the greatest gift. nobody is happy with herself
and think confidently
u ll see the world changing
2007-09-08 08:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Aryan K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women pay to have boobs like you. Wear them proud, don't hide your body, i bet ya skinny friends don't go wearing baggy close to hide their skinny frames? Their your's your are in control in how you want to show them, and them the same with their shape bodie parts...tight jeans skinny hips so.
2007-09-08 00:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wish i had big boobs...lol, what worked for me when i was younger, i used to hang around people that look similar to me. i was tall and slim...in so was my friends. i know it might sound dumb, but it's worked for me. i felt normal and there was no comparison...
2007-09-08 00:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you noticed how many girls get boob jobs? Be proud of those things you have no idea how many girls would love to have large natural breasts!
2007-09-08 00:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by farflemagoo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋