but what if the reason is a mistake? you make the decision when you are confused?
2007-09-07 21:00:51 · 15 answers · asked by LiFE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the break up is not mutual as one of you had another person in mind....
2007-09-07 21:02:11 · update #1
Well, then that sucks. Sorry.
2007-09-07 21:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with someone, and the reason was a mistake. Not trusting is a big issue in a relationship.
If you made the decision confused?
You reacted without thinking. Breaking up is something major!
I think it's time to get a grip on your insecurities/jealous behavior, if you don't...this will keep happening in all your relationships.
I wish you the best of luck on this journey in life.
Life is short, don't waste it.
2007-09-08 04:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by laughinglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it a mistake now? Because the other person one of you had in mind turned you down? That's what I would feel like if I was on the opposite end of this question.
Mistakes are reasons!
2007-09-08 04:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's 1am here and I've been up all day wondering the same thing.How do you know if its a mistake? Or what if the reason were because of the emotional abuse that's breaking you do so low you just want to crawl into a hole and die...wait, that's my story, sorry...
I guess I'm the wrong person to answer this for you, I'm sorry
2007-09-08 04:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some decisions are irrevocable, that's why we need to make them carefully. For example, if you broke up with a terrific girl ,realized you'd made a mistake, and tried to get her back she'd probably opt to leave things like they are because she'd be thinking you hurt her frivilously and unnecessarily and nothing would prevent you from doing it again (and she'd be right). You can't unring a bell. Confusion is normal and quite human, but no one else is obligated to ride that wave with us as we navigate our confusion, so don't expect them to.
2007-09-08 04:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a break up is a break up whether its mutually or because of some misunderstanding & you own up for your decision,you dont go back on your decisions.yes,you break up for a reason that makes you hate that person,or get detatched from them.
2007-09-08 04:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mistakes are the reason for breakups..whether the 2 can reconcile is another topic
2007-09-08 04:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mistake is a reason...
2007-09-08 04:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u always end up hurting each other than loving
if u'r partner cannot make you happy and vice versa
it is not worth to save the relationship..
2007-09-08 04:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am undergoing exactly same thing. my gf broke up with me coz she is having someone else in mind but now that person is not talking to her properly and she is feeling bad.
i dont know what to do.
2007-09-08 04:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by ashuaaaaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need to think before you act, i've broken up wit someone cuz i was confused and i ended up losing someone close.....and so you learn from your mistakes......
2007-09-08 04:15:57 · answer #11 · answered by skater chic 08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋