Should I break up with her?

Question

We have been dating for several months now. She has fallen completely head over heels for me, and I care very much for her. I knew that she had some issues when we began dating, I just didn't know how deep the rabbit hole went. Her extended family has basically disowned her, and she is not very close with her immediate family. I have been the only one she can ever really talk to. Since we have been dating, she has had a couple of nervous breakdowns, one of which she became upset and tried to claw my arm off. She apologized profusely, and that night she cried her heart out for over an hour about all her problems, but the next morning, she couldn't remember any of what happened at all. This was a little too much for me, and I tried breaking up with her, but she begged me for a second chance, and I just couldn't say no. Also, she cannot have children, but I have realized now I do want them someday.
The truth is, I don't want to break her heart, but I don't know if I can handle all this.

Answer 1

You are a sweetheart.You could ask her to get some therapeutic help (mentally),she sounds as though she is depressed and confused pertaining to situations in her life,and you are the one she takes it out on because you love her.All i can say is if you stay in the relationship because you don't want to hurt her,then you are only hurting yourself.

Answer 2

tell her goodbye and good luck. your heart is just as important as hers. so save yourself alot of heartache now. saying no thank you to a relationship that comes with so many problems is the right thing to do. Don't feel bad feel glad and thank your parents for raising you with love and knowing you deserve it too. good luck

Answer 3

I will advise you that do it in a way that it will not break her heart. Please do still give her some time before you gradually disengage from her.