i try so hard to look good for him, so he would ask me out. and then after all my persistance, he goes out with some one very interesting(?) looking???
2007-09-07 20:13:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why dont you try just being yourself and the person will fall in love with the real you...not some dolled up tart pretending to be something she's not!
2007-09-07 20:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being short-sighted.
You are making the huge mistake of looking at this from *your* point of view.
He chose someone HE likes. HE chose what appeals to HIM. You are doing what YOU think he likes. Obviously either you chose the wrong thing. YOU may think you look good...and maybe you do, but HE many not think so.
I hate to say this, but he may just not find you appealing regardless of what outfit you sport in front of him. It's not the outfit we men get all turned on per see....it's the girl AND the outfit.
So....listen up ladies!!! When you ask your man which outfit he likes and he says 'any of them'....HE MEANS IT. It means YOU look so good to him that you make ANY outfit look good. It's a compliment!
Got it?
So, you can try and try and try, but if he's not interested, chances are....he's not interested. The whole package is looks, and personality. How you look, how you carry yourself, how you think, what you say, how you say it, and on and on. Some girls have it, some don't. Same for us guys. Some of us want certain girls, but some girls are just not interested.
That's how it goes. I'm sure you're cute and nice and all....but if you don't strike that right note with him, he will go and listen to someone else's song.
Best of luck to you tho.
2007-09-07 20:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. Be yourself. Nobody likes a put-on. When you look your worse; you'll probably meet a great guy. They don't like girls who make a big deal of fixing up. Just be naturally neat, clean and attractive. No frills or extras.
2007-09-07 20:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he cares more about personality and by you trying to get him with just looks he may think you are shallow. Try talking to him to let him know you are more than just a viewing type girl, if you are.
2007-09-07 20:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the good guys don't judge people on how they look.
2007-09-07 20:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys dont care what your wearing. We dont notice that as much as women notice what each other wears. All we care about is what a woman looks like naked.
2007-09-07 20:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
treat your self good and other will treat you good. i guess what im sayin is look hot because you like it not just for some dude
2007-09-07 20:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by a s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm u try to hard , u base yourself on looks, try personality too.
2007-09-07 20:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cant read minds :/ you may have just wanted to dress up that day.
2007-09-07 20:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats bcos guys are not materialistic.they just want to see and know the real you period.
2007-09-07 20:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by concerned girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋