well recently we had this sorta fashion show thing & i had a black fitted tank top and i let my hair loose--my hair is like really wavy and a little curly and quite long(till 3/4 of my back)..my friends were like u look really hot & yea..my friends always tell me to leave my hair loose, but since we have a uniform im supposed to tie it but sometimes i can leave it open..but i thought i should experiment with my hair to see how it would look like if i'd leave it open..so 2-3 days i left it open--then my mom told me u look really bad when u leave your hair open & when u left it open when going in the bus --u were looking ugly. i was shocked & the most strangest thing is that i know if i was looking bad someone would comment or say eww--all my friends--even people who i dont know say i have nice hair and i should leave it open instead of making a ponytail.my mom said she was embarrased of even coming out because i looked so bad when my hair was open--how could that be true?i mean teachers
2007-09-07 20:10:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
who've seen me with my hair open have told me its beautiful---i know if someone would have to make fun of me--they would..but no one said anything..
2007-09-07 20:10:36 · update #1
my mom says leave your open when u iron it..im not pissed off but i want to know if my friends and teachers would be lying to me!
2007-09-07 20:10:52 · update #2
i dunno my mom said i'd never lie to u & she was telling me that i dont know people u dont want people indirectly teasing u and stuff
2007-09-07 20:22:44 · update #3
she tells me that u listen to your mom or your friends--im anyways tieing it--but if i leave it open she says i look awful--& she leaves her hair open all the time--she dosent iron it--ugh
2007-09-07 20:29:44 · update #4
sounds like your hair open is pretty hot and maybe you mom doesnt want to see that side of you. or maybe she's the only one keepin it real
2007-09-07 20:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by a s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but I know from experience that most moms don't want their children, especially their daughters, to grow up too fast. If wearing your hair down makes you look and/or seem older, that may disturb her. I'm sure she means it for good and not to put you down. It may be hard for her to communicate to you how she feels. Perhaps you could compromise and wear it in a ponytail when you're in school, etc., and sometimes wear it down when you're home so she can get used to it. She must believe you have beautiful hair or she would have had it cut shorter. Moms and friends think differently. When your Mom says you look "bad", she may mean she doesn't want people to think you are "wild" for your age. Try not to think anything negative against you--you're just dealing with growing up and a parent's spin on it vs your friends' ideals. Just know that your Mom must have your best interests at heart, and I'm sure she must be very proud of you!
2007-09-15 15:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bonbon29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... Moms have a different and CONSERVATIVE way of looking at their daughters.She will take some time to digest the fact that you look HOT.. which is what ur friends say. Moms usually like their daughters prim and neat. Not HOT. So just chill it'll get better with time.
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2007-09-08 03:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by AYOOZe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have gorgeous hair. I think that there is nothing more sexy then a girl with really long hair when she just lets it hang loose. That is the way girls are supposed to look
2007-09-08 03:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by latenight1010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes moms are jealous. That could be the reasoning behind all of this. If it looks beautiful people wouldnt avoid the truth. They would tell you just like it is!
2007-09-08 03:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like can't follow what you are saying. How do you like your hair? Open? Ponytail? cornrowed?
Make you and your mirror happy ,let the dwebs be dwebs...
2007-09-08 03:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by tagway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom sounds mean and jealous but it could also be her personal preference of your hair.
do what YOU think looks pretty
2007-09-08 03:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
You cannot please everybody.
Do your own hairstyle that you think is best for you.
Its not only the hair that will make you hot its also the attitude.
2007-09-08 03:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by "Maldita" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋