My father was a Christian. A man loved by many, even though he was a bit odd and crazy about the color bright orange. He was a bit wacky. He painted his kitchen a bright orange, the living room a bright red, and the hallway a bright yellow. My mom thought it was a bad idea, but because I am a creative person and respond to color, I thought it was a cheerful place. My father was also very open about religious beliefs. He felt the same as I do, that people are going to go with how they feel and shouldn't feel pressured to follow one or the other. When I told him I had converted to Islam, it didn't even phase him. He had done his own research due to 9-11, and knew that the religion itself was not to blame. Even the pastor at church welcomed it for he knew that even though we don't believe exactly the same, we follow one God. Even now, when my two children are with my mother for the weekend, on Sunday they go to Church with her just for the exposure. Who couldn't love this man?
2007-09-07 19:29:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I feel the need to add this bit which is making me smile right now. He had the living room and kitchen all decked out in Halloween theme. I'm not kidding. He loved that day because he would always take my sister, brother, and I out trick or treating and have contests. It was his way of remembering our childhood. And since he had my nephew living with him, felt it was nice to see the cute stuff. It wasn't the scary stuff, but the stuff made to make kids laugh or smile instead of cry.
I miss him so much, and my mom is asleep right now. What do you think of a man like this? He wasn't the perfect father, but he showed his self in his own way. Can anything be more wonderful or spiritual than that?
2007-09-07 19:31:37 · update #1
Reading all this...I envy you. I didn't have the good fortune to have a father like that...loving, open and humorous. You are very lucky to have such wonderful memories rather than the nightmares I have.
I know it's cold comfort, but you have something very valuable, memories to treasure for a lifetime.
((((hugs))))
2007-09-07 20:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God's gift from Heaven is the kinky woman, IMO. Sexual tendencies in a relationship is kind of like picking a place to go for dinner-talk, talk, talk about it. If either of you feel uncomfortable, and there is no compromise, it wouldn't be sensible, or fair, to continue this type of relationship. Maybe become friends, close friends, or resume and associate type friendship, but don't become something where sex is involved. As far as a guy/girl giving me the "What did you just say/do?!" face during, finish, and spend the next day mostly out of the house 'til you're ready to laugh or apologize, and, ultimately, talk about it. Good Luck! :)
2016-04-03 10:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your father was a wonderful man. A lot of people would have gone into hysterics if their child converted to Islam int he post 9-11 era. If there is a God, then it will be most rewarding to those who showed compassion and acceptance to those who thought differently than they did and did not pass judgment because they were different. I'm very sorry for your loss. You seem to be doing your father proud though by continuing to set a good example of being compassionate and accepting by letting your children be exposed to be many ideas. I am sure that if your child comes to you one day with the declaration of their new beliefs, then you will be as accepting as your father if not more so. People like your father are what makes this world a wonderful place to live because no one needs to be afraid to follow their hearts.
2007-09-07 19:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by rainbowreggie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your Father sounds like someone who would have probably understood me. I am odd and always on the fring of life looking in. I can not fathom how you must feel. I will never know because I have no Father, or Mother, or Brothers, or Sisters, or anything. I won't pretend to know. I can never be hurt that deeply from the loss of a family member. I think your Father would not want you to be so distraught and sad by his passing. He sounds like he was very vibrant and embraced whatever life threw at him. That he would want you to be able to remember all the things you shared together and what he taught you. Do not allow yourself to slip into depression. Satan's favorite playground. You are in my prayers.
2007-09-07 19:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I see that you used this question to slip in a defense of Islam regarding 9-11. Do you not know what the Quran says which shows it approves of terrorism? I quote: sura 2:191 Slay the unbelievers wherever you find them; sura 2:193 Fight the infidels until they accept Islam; sura 3:28 Muslims must not take the infidels as friends; sura 3:85 Any religion other than Islam is not acceptable; sura 9:123 Make war on the infidels living in your neighbourhood; sura 8:12 Terrorise and behead those who believe in scriptures other than the Qur’an; sura 9:29 Kill the Jews and the Christians if they do not convert to Islam or refuse to pay Jizya tax; sura 9:30 The Jews and the Christians are perverts; fight them; sura 25:52 Fight the unbelievers vigorously without any exception; sura 47:4 Do not hanker for peace with the infidels; behead them when you catch them.
2007-09-07 19:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by cheir 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
That is wonderful I'm sure your father would have loved to be remembered the way you are remembering him, you are fortunate to have had such a wonderful father we are not all so fortunate, but it's at least something positive for you to hold on to, in this negativer situation. Once again I'd like to say i am really very sorry for your loss of your very loved father [[[BIG HUGS]]]to you
2007-09-07 20:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The imperfection of fathers.... is sometimes the most perfect thing in the world....
No one in this world can be perfect... but what counts is the ability of fathers to love and care for their children, to raise them to think for themselves, be patient and understanding.
Your father sounds like a wonderful person, and I can easily tell that you loved him very much....
No wonder Islam places such importance in loving and taking care of parents...
Try this Quranic suppplication.... Surah 17, Verse 24 - My Lord! Bestow on them (my parents) Your mercy as they did bring me when I was young.
2007-09-07 20:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Wanderer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have been very, very blessed to have a father so loving and caring and understanding. A wonderful tribute to your father. Let his love and respect follow on in you and his grandchildren.
The world would be a better place with more people like your Dad.
2007-09-07 19:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Happy-as-can-be 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Surely, those who believe and the Jews and the Christians and the Sabians - whichever party from among these truly believes in Allah and the Last Day and does good deeds, shall have their reward with their Lord, and no fear shall come upon them, nor shall they grieve.
Holy Quran
2007-09-07 20:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your Father sounds like an incredible man. He is the defination of what a true Christian should be. His Pastor is also wise. You are truly blessed to have him as a Father.
2007-09-07 19:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 9⤊ 1⤋