I felled in love with a girl last year ..she was in my tutions..but I didn't had the courage to approach & then she went out of my life & I don't know where she is at the moment.....I has affected me deeply...i'm unable to concentrate on my studies or anything else..........I think i got the taste of true love............what to do now?????????.
2007-09-07 18:54:26 · 22 answers · asked by Gagandeep Singh B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Gagandeep,
its nice that you discovered this beautiful feeling for the first time my dear,its nice to be in love. but bub i feel sorry that you wasn't able to let her know about your feelings before things changed but do not lose the hope am sure 'god' will bless you with you true love soon ask your guruji for guidance you'll be surprised.
one suggestion hunny, don't listen to Indian love songs coz it'll even make you feel more miserable and alone, instead listen to musice that will up lift your spirit it will help you do well in your study's and to wait till you meet again to tell her, how much you like her.
with all the best,
prity
2007-09-08 04:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by prity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first of all you should study hard & just concentrate on your stdies.Once your exams are over,build up confidence in yourself & to do that u have to trust god & yourself offcourse...about your girl as u said she was in your tutions so ask your common friends (who are both of yours friends) if someone is having any contact with her.if your love for that girl is really true one day she is going to come in your life definitely.
2007-09-07 20:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by vahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st develope courage else even if she meets u again but u wont be able to propose her or express yr feeling or even tlk to her. Then focus on studie, becaus u may or may not get her, but if u cant study then there will be a lot of problem. So focus on studying & also try to get her no from the tuition teachr or class where u saw her 1st.
2007-09-07 19:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by JAMES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, feel your pain, might not seem like im helping but have urslef a good cry cuz ur never seeing her again. When u think ur a little over her then go clubbing, meaby you'll find someone else, or meaby even get lucky :P, lol sry if this isnt helful in anyway, but thats how i got over it, but it took me like a month to discover that i wasnt going to see her again.
lol facebook hadnt come out then, now u can just find them on facebook, search her full name in the search box :P
2007-09-07 19:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by val_qy12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now u understand what they mean when they say that when u like someone, just tell em!
i truly feel bad for u.... but lets see it this way... u concentrate on ur studies... make a career.. make a life... prove ur worth... so if ever she meets u in this life time... she wouldnt have to think twice if u ask her to spend her life with u...
n the next time u like a girl... TELL HER!
2007-09-07 19:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Proud 2 b Indian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from ur tution records u can know her college details. Go there, meet her, find her feelings on you..
if she is already interested on you, well and good... otehrwise start friend ship and make her love you..
you must have courage ... lol
2007-09-07 20:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by dSolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi gagan-firstly at your age getting attracted 2 a girl is but natural--now,,whether its love or infatuation one has 2 find out.You r too young 2 understand it .
So,since yu know this person for a short period n even not spoken to her ,you cant be in love with her so its purely an attraction-you ve to find her with same intensity as you think of her-if yu cant then best is to forget her n concentrate on your studies--may be yu ll find s;one better whom yu know better n is matching with yur views-so for now relax conc on studies n do well in yur academics .such situations will come in future also,but if yu lose yur year yu r at abig loss,
2007-09-07 20:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by scorp29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I dont want to sound mean...
but I think you need to get over her. It's another year, and there are tons of other girls out there. Maybe there's something else on your mind that your ignoring and your using this girl as an excuse...
just saying
2007-09-07 19:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See man, studies are more important, so please do something to make you forget her. I think what you can do is make new GF, her expressions etc etc, will make you involve in her and you will be out of all this sad zone...
its a well said line in hindi..
"ZEHAR HI ZEHAR KO MAARTA HAI"
So I say, "EK LADKI KA DIYA DARD EK LADKI HI DOOR KAR SAKTI HAI"
find a new gal for you man, there are many :)
and be strong man, don't let a gal take over you. Make yourself like that, that you take over gals ;).
2007-09-07 19:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Abhinav Gupta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to find her first and it is not difficult, u know her name or her relatives staying here, u can contact them and find out or u can find her on the net or at yahoo answers.
Once u find her, u must talk to her and tell her your feelings, and if she agrees, then u can be happily married and live happily ever after.
2007-09-07 19:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋