I like this guy alot and have been for sometime, Whenever we do talk (which hasn't been since before summer) it's great, we can talk for a long time, but the prob is that everytime i see him, its a passing in the hallway, and boh of us always have our friends w/ us so we can't excactly leave them. But when ever we do pass, he'll always look at me. He's really sweet and i'm hoping that i will get to go to home coming w/ him.
What can i do? I really need help.
* do remember we haven't talked in a while so it can't be to upfront
2007-09-07 18:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by 1562 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
luk if u seriously like him take out some time he must be also wondering .. that why havent u approached him to talk... he is waiting and it wont seem as if obviously u like him situation ... leave your frnds and talk... try calling him and asking why has he been so busy that he cant even talk.. try communication throught emailing and chatting . it may help and yeah !! he may take u to the dance so do this
it will help u for sure
2007-09-07 18:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by kritika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see him alone I urge you smile and say hello. Act normal and then ask whether he will attend Home coming. He will respond and will let you know. At that moment, You need to be politely and jump in saying Hey I need a friend to hang out with. If you are free to go I would appreciate ? If not I do not mind going by myself. Let have a good laugh and joy our friends. So you do not have to feel like asking him out and you are not loosing face.
2007-09-08 01:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day it would not be weird if you asked him to home coming. Something to think about, but don't think to long he may make other plans. You could write a quick note with you phone # and slip it to him in passing. Find out his locker and put it there, you could even get his home address and mail a cutez card. Good luck, nothing ventured nothing gained.
2007-09-08 01:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by lowiezowie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip him a note, telling him you would like to talk a bit more in private but that your not wanting to abandon your friends either. Im sure he will try to make time and mayby his friends will just keep walking the next time you meet him. Ive told my friends to keep going before "ill catch up to you in a bit" they understood. They are your friends after all.
2007-09-08 01:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by David Parker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would suggest to start making time. tell your friends you will catch up with them later. but i would try to make a bigger effort to have time with him. also do you need help with anything get him to help you. oh and what about discussing something like a book or homework you never know i mean that might not be your thing but just look harder and things will come to you. you can hope he will ask you to home coming all you want but your just gonna have to wait. but talking and hanging out might help it along. another thing if you haven't talked much walk up to him and ask him if you to could talk and just be like we haven't got to hang out in so long i thought maybe we could hang out for a bit. i don't know that might be to corny but in the end just follow your heart and keep yourself in line with your head. good luck
2007-09-08 01:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by pan_clock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down your phone number on a piece of paper and keep it in your purse or wherever. Next time you see him, hand it to him and tell him you want to catch up when you both have times.
I think girls need to realize there is nothing wrong with pursuing a guy.
2007-09-08 01:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by bigdogchris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you do talk to him in class ask flirty why dont you say hi in the halls huh and then in the halls see if he does say hi and then round homeocming ask who he is taking or thinking bout taking and just be ther as a friend with flirt and he'll like u better but dont let him use u or anything
2007-09-08 01:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Gooby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get to know someone better then you will have to figure out a way to spend some time with that person. I don't think he will be able to ask you to homecoming if you are always with your friends and he is always with his friends and you can't just leave them. Figure it out. Are you always tied to the same friends? Can't you invite someone to join you and your friends? Ask him to sit with you at lunch. Introduce him to your friends.
2007-09-08 01:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guy are passing one another, then at least say hey or hows it going..he will msot likely notice that you went out of your way to say hey...then slowly but surely start having longer conversations, then see what happens, try talking to him often and saying things like hey we should chill sometime and smile dont forget to smile its important.<33
2007-09-08 01:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by shortyyy_1o1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start a small conversation, and you will most likely start talking to him for a while! Like star with something like "Hey I haven't talked to you in a while!"!
2007-09-08 01:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋