I still love him and care about him with my whole heart... but he does not love nor care about me. I've set my mind to it but how can i get over him???
2007-09-07 18:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do i show him what he's missing if he doesnt even care???
2007-09-07 18:08:05 · update #1
be involved in some activities..like go work out at the gym or volunteer around your community...mostly hang out with your friends a lot and meet new ppl...and little by little when you start to think of him..try doing other things..or talk on the phone with someone about something else...i know it can be hard..i know how it feels to devote your whole heart to someone and not recieve it back....time heals everything..and before you'll know it , you'll find someone who loves you so much, that anything about this guy won't even matter..you'll find your soul mate and he'll be better
2007-09-07 18:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't work.
It hurts.
Time to lick your wounds, watch some sappy romance movies and enjoy a pint of Ben and Jerrys.
Let plenty of time pass and dip your toe in the pool again. Someday the connection will be true.
2007-09-08 01:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself other things to think about. Whenever you think about him, tell yourself to think about something else. Pick something, and it doesn't matter what. Go out and do other things. Be active, don't sit around moping.
And ask yourself this: What is the point of wanting someone who doesn't want you? What on earth good is a person who doesn't want you going to be to you? That would be no fun at all.
2007-09-08 01:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got broken up with recently, and what really helps for me is to turn your sadness into happyness. Find a new guy to like and consontrate on him and your friends. If he doesn't love you, his loss! Your probally way to good for him anyways!
2007-09-08 01:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me its not easy,but enough time ,it heals all things,even a broken heart.stay busy,concentrate on the bad things hes done and keep telling yourself u deserve better because u do.give yourself time.one day u will find the right one it just takes time.
2007-09-08 01:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by spoodleroo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the situation as you are and it hurts so much! Guess time can heal us.
2007-09-08 01:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will heal your pain.
For now just keep busy with stuff. school, work, sports, clubs...w.e
good luck hun!
2007-09-08 01:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by MQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dating! keep your head up and be confident...since you cant be with him...do your own thing...be successful and show him what he missing!
2007-09-08 01:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by VersatilePessimist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds crazy but this is the way i think... confront him and tell him all of this..
2007-09-08 01:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by TG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋