i know a 20 year old girl who has been having sex since she was about 5 years old and to this day is still having sex like 2-3 times a day. she has had sex with mostly girls as a child and a few men as she got older. but as she got older she stop having sex with women. now she jus mostly masturbates and fools around with a few men. this is not me, for all the nosey people and stuff. this question was presented in a discussion. what could be driving this sexual need? could something have happened to her in the past?
2007-09-07 17:50:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-09-08 03:45:05 · update #1
why aren't all people addicted to sex is a better question
2007-09-07 17:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she was having sex with women at 5 i'd say that might be a point of interest in the past. Were they older women, some kind of abuse situation? Now maybe she has low self worth, feels dirty and the only way she can maybe make others happy or interact with them is sexually. Thier attention gives her a fleeting self esteem boost. Also may otherwise be dull or unsocial, thus uses sex to gain attention and affection. Or could just have a gaping hole in her heart from some betrayal by the mother or care giver with this early sex you mentioned. or other reason that she needs to fill this void in her life, failures and inadequecies, but don't expect a person to admit those freely, need a revelation i think.
2007-09-08 00:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made this whole thing up because the girl's been having sex since she was 5? That's hard to believe! If you had said she was rape and/or molested when she was 5, then I would've believe you.
And to answer your question: "Why are some people addicted to sex?"
- Isn't that just human nature? I mean, dosen't everyone in this world loves sex? Sex is a part of life and love.. . also lust too...
2007-09-08 01:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Soa's Fate~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well 5 years is pretty unnatural age because the body is not developed for mating.......but what I read I think it's about nympho manic......It is a person who just cannot be satisfied and that's why she/he seeks for sexual contact much more often than normal people.....But having sex since such an early age can cause many negative features like not having pleasure and being "cold"(sorry forgot the scientific name) in sexual activities.....
2007-09-08 01:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she was molested as a child and it was embedded in her brain that sex is a way to get people to love/like her...this is more than likely why she is a hoe now...because of her past sexual abuse...
However other people who are addicted to sex have different reasons...Everyone is addicted to something and it's all for different reasons.
2007-09-08 00:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the explanation is probably physiological - a gland is overproducing hormones that are causing sexual arousal. Some people have got this condition from a bump on the head. It is a diagnosable condition but I don't know what the treatment is.
2007-09-08 01:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dim Witt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she started having sex when she was 5 years old, something most definetely happened to her.
A large number of people that have sexual addictions have some other driving cause.
2007-09-08 00:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More than likely this young woman was used as ''a sexual toy" as a small child. She was probably molested by males and possibly females too. This is just my opinion. She needs to get some professional help.
Hope this helps.
2007-09-08 00:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Liz O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably not crazzy its just the question you need to ask and think like really hard of your question to answear your own question. she might have been shown a picture of a porno under a bridge with her and her friend and thats when she found out what sex was to her probably at first it was nasty to her then got into it in middle school because of people around her knew way more then her well the older age people of who she might of hung around with
theirs just so many issues ....but people are adicted because the answear is so simple ... it just feels good its like a permanent drug ... its the only good work out 2 people can do because it takes emotion time and feeling....but i guess the only way to not think about sex is your future goals if you have future goals you will set boundries to yourself
2007-09-08 01:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by scary_baby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has been having sex since she was 5, she was sexually abused as a child and she is completely screwed up in the head. For other people, orgasms feel really good, that is why sex is enjoyable.
2007-09-08 00:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by suspendedagain300 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was sexually abused in the past --- no one chooses to have sex as a five year old. Stuff like that opens the door up wide for sexual problems later in life, particularly sexual addiction.
2007-09-08 00:54:04 · answer #11 · answered by KL 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋