ok, so heres the deal, he bought my brother online stuff for his ps2 which probably cost around 150 dollars or more and guess what: he wont buy me the barbie girls mp3 player and he says well where am i gonna get one, and i said amazon sells them. and i've tried telling him its not fair that my brother got all that online stuff for christmas that one year. oh and did i mention it only cost around 70 dollars where my brothers stuff was probably a lot more. so is this fair?
2007-09-07 16:31:46 · 10 answers · asked by ♥sbg14♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is not fair. He should spend the same amount on both of you guys. And if he gets online stuff than so should you.
2007-09-07 16:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to put a dollar value on your Dad's love for you? Is there a rule book that says your Dad must spend an equal amount on gifts for his children every year. What if next year he spends $150 on you and $50 on your brother. Now is a good time in life to learn about unselfishness and the meaning of true love. It is not measured in dollars and cents.
2007-09-07 16:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think is fairness here, you may want to find the reasons why he does not want to buy online for you. He may have his reasons of doing so. Unless you know the reasons behind, you cannot say it is fair or not.
The other things to think about is, he has the rightto give to whoever he feels like. It may not be fair to you from your perspective, however from his perspective, you have not earned what you should in his eyes. Things like, perhaps you brother was rewarded because his grades is good or something like that and your grades are not.
Take care
2007-09-07 16:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Is totally not fair. See me i have a brother of my own and if he got all this nice stuff and i didnt get what i wanted i would be cool about it! Then once all his stuff came in i would just break it but that isnt very fair he should the exact amount as he spent on your brother on you!!!
-BY3
2007-09-07 16:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he done other things for you that he hasn't for your brother? Could also be he's doing that so you'll think you're not getting it, and then SURPRISE! But what you think he spent on your brother, and what he actually spent, may be two different things.
2007-09-07 16:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thats fair at all he should spend the same amount of money on both of yall
2007-09-07 16:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is love that matters for me. If your father bought what you the love the most, the price should not matter.
2007-09-07 19:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by explorer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..if it is according to your story.....but you must take in mind, that nothing is "fair" in this world. best is you talk to your dad about it and iron out all the "guesses" or "misunderstanding"....Best of luck......
2007-09-07 16:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by 1111 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may be playing favorites or he may not know that you are in need of " stuff" too. It is prolly a guy thing. talk to him about it.
2007-09-07 16:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not fair to u
2007-09-07 16:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.Sleepy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋