ok my boyfriend is really sweet but im only 14 almost 15 and all is friends are having sex and he feels left out. I'm not going to lose my vigenity yet I too young but theres a romour going around that hes gonna break up with me if i dont what should i do? plz i dont care plz plz plz just help (i would like to know from a guys mind)
2007-09-07 16:22:18 · 31 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if the rumour is true. If he is going to break up with you for that than you don't want to lose your virginity to him. Your first time is something you will never forget so make sure it's a good memory. If he respects you he will wait till you are ready.
2007-09-07 16:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by ERIC E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he breaks up with you for not having sex with him, you are better off without him, trust me. when you hit 30 and look back at today, you will thank me for telling you this. Doing stuff because all your freinds are doing it is SUPER STUPID. You are an individual and your virginity is a temple. Don't lose it to some ham head going through puberty who probably doesn't know which hole he's supposed to put it in. HS is hard and fitting in is hard, but HS is not the world, it's only a small stop along the way. Good luck and hold out!
2007-09-07 16:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your body is not a tool for him to use to feel good about himself, or feel like he's one of the boys, or feel popular. Yes, he may feel pressure from his friends to conform, but that doesn't obligate you to give him sex.
He ought to stand up and be his own man, not the puppet of his friends demands. Frankly, I think you have far more character than he does - you are smarter, and have the strength to stand by your decision to not have sex. You deserve better treatment than this.
And I kind of doubt too that his friends are having as much (or any) sex as they claim they are having.
So, what to do . . . I'd lay it out clear for him that he has to decide between your relationship or his friends approval. I know you want this to be pain-free, and you wish that time could go back to where this wasn't an issue, but you can't, and he's responsible for that . . he's making this the problem, not you. I can't promise you there won't be a break-up, no one can, but if he breaks up with you over something like this, you are better rid of him.
2007-09-07 16:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex... wait, it's the best thing you can do. I am 20 years old and still a virgin. The best thing to remember, is that you are still young, if a guy really likes you, he can wait until you are ready. don't give it up just to make us feel better. I like it when A girl sticks to what she believes. If you don't want to lose your virginity, DON'T!! let him leave you... you are young, there are plenty of guys out there that will understand you in the years to come
2007-09-07 16:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by yafathomiejt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you really wanna try to fit in?? Your trying be something you aint. Just be urself, if you dont want to dont, hes not the guy for you if he cant wait.. hes just looking for some punai.
also only 55 percent of the highschool population have lost their virginity, and if u divide that from female to male, only around 26-28 percent are actually having sex. His friends are trying to be cool, trust me i was in high school once.
2007-09-07 16:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweety, you are too young to even think about losing your virginity. If he doesn't want to wait til ur ready then he is history. no guy is worth that. Your virginity is the most precious dignity you own. Don't let some immature kid tell you different. You have a long life ahead of you. DON'T DO IT!!
2007-09-07 16:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by jimmysgrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow yourself to be coerced. The moral high-ground position you're gonna get here is wait and I agree. But if you cant wait make sure its at least what you want instead of a response to pressure.
2007-09-07 16:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sick. If the rumor is true then you should break up with him because guys like that aren't really your friends they're just there because they think your cute. Besides true Lovers would respect each others feeling and decisions so break up with him.
2007-09-07 16:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Yuki Ookami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you may actually blame you,on account which you 2 ain't valid,and with reference to the guy you slept with,possibly u coming up thoughts for him?in case you thinking approximately him,you may desire to communicate with him,and spot in case you somewhat don't sense something for him.long distance isn't undemanding paintings,and distinctive of the time it not at all works,on account which you get lonely,or unhappy if that individual does not communicate with you well-known.
2016-10-18 07:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at all the good answers you got, girl - all boys want is what you have. Give it to him, and he's gonna dump you anyways. Wait........8 years. Then find someone who will wait 4 months for ya.
2007-09-07 16:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by beastseeksabeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋