ok plain and simple i'm a high school freshman, i like a girl can't aproach her, we don't sit near eachother in class, and i don't want to be just friends. What do i do?
2007-09-07 16:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by novak253 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Can't approach her" is your problem. Can't, or won't? Can't is if you have no legs and are incapable of scraping yourself along the floor to reach her by any other means. Won't is if you are afraid of rejection so you avoid her. If you won't approach her, then you truly are lost in this case and it is best to move on. Forget about. While you are at it, stop taking risks entirely. Sit at home and wear a helmet. Be brave, man!! I understand where you are. Just be yourself and start talking to the girl. It is OK to make a fool of yourself. Get practice at it now, and in the future it will only get easier. Good luck!!
2007-09-07 16:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by bernaillo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be bold my young player. Catch her off guard, and ask her out on a date. The younger you start doing this the better you will get down the road. Think about that; later on in life your with your friends in a bar, and you see a hot woman and you have know trouble going over and talking to her. Go talk to the girl on Monday.
2007-09-07 23:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about this for a minute. You've never even approached the girl, yet you already know you don't want to be just friends?
What if she could become the best friend you've ever had?
I'm done with highshcool. Been there, done that. And I know that being friends is so much greater and rewarding than just going in and out of relationships with many people.
Give this girl a chance at just being friends. And if the relationship grows into something more, then consider it a bonus. :)
2007-09-07 23:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Littleperson 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try and find a mutual friend is the key. then she knows ur not a weirdo then half the job is done then ask or talk to her about that person like "have u seen ----- round latley" get on her radar then its all personality if she likes u great if not unlucky but u have to be in it to win it. and remember dont fall into the friends pile, leave a bit of mystery about ur self and sometimes its better to be the funny guy than the " too cool" guy
2007-09-07 23:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
See if you can befriend one of her friends or something, or wait for a group assignment and ask to be in her group. Or, get the friendliest guy friend she knows and hangout with them at like the mall or something. If you have trouble with work, ask if she knows how to deal with it. If she doesn't, well, say neither do I, you want to help me figure it out? Comment on how neat her writing may be, or anything. Talk to her at lunch, or after school. Talk about her favourite shows, what she wants to be, talk about siblings and such. G'luck!
2007-09-07 23:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
own your attitude walk straight up to her and ask her if she would like to go to lunch with you one day! Or you can be forward with her and just ask her out. If for some reason she says no DO NOT lose your cool! That is very important!
2007-09-07 23:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by ashj2011 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make ur self noticable
if ur in 1 of her classes do something 2 make all eyes on u. join a sports teem that ur good at. ask her 2 come 2 1 of ur games
2007-09-07 23:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by NAtt 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get to know her! you can't just like someone in the corner and expect her to ever get your attention. compliment her about something and see if that leads to a conversation. even ask about a class assignment! outgoing is always better then sitting in a corner.
2007-09-07 23:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by sexyhottie2009 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to find stuff out about her and carry on a conversation. Just start out simple maybe trade phone numbers or sumthin. this should work.
2007-09-07 23:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by jimmysgrl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well if you can't approach her, then there is nothing you can do. You have to approach her and talk to her. But what's the point of being around a girl who makes you anxious and nervous anyway?
2007-09-07 23:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋