2007-09-07 16:08:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should try talking it out first if you haven't already expressing your concerns to him will be better than keeping it all inside because if you do he wont know that what he's doing is hurting you. But if he knows how you feel then chances are the relationship wont last very long. A good relationship Needs attention love and support ignoring each other will cause so many arguments you'll end up unhappy.
For the break up part is merely your choice so choose wisely and think before you end the relationship with him
Good Luck
2007-09-07 16:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by christina bedingfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him until you have a good discussion with him about how his disrespectful behavior affects you. Give him an idea how you would like him to treat you in front of his friends. It may be that he is a little embarrassed about having a girlfriend, and is young enough not to know how to behave.
Once you have explained to him how you need to be treated, give him a few times to correct his ways. If he changes, then it's fine to continue your relationship. If, on the other hand, he does not begin to demonstrate respect for you in front of his friends, it's time to end your relationship. It's very important for your own self esteem that you not allow anyone to mistreat you. It's not unusual though, that boys are less mature than girls of their own age (or even a bit younger,) and need to grow up a bit before they are at their best.
2007-09-07 23:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always be told to yea kick him to the curb you deserve better, but the truth is the grass looks greener on the other side until you get there. Believe me all men do that in front of there friends, its just a guy thing to do, the reason they do that is because its a guard in front of other guys in case you arent there tommorow they cant really go back to there friends and cry/eat ice cream like we can. You will see he will become more opened as you stay strong it took my man a long time as well but now his friends call me to see what he is doing. Time will create a lot more.
2007-09-07 23:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't break up with him. Talk to him about it. People are often more comfortable around their friends. HE should let u in. But then again, he probably talks about other stuff around his friends than u do. Tell him u don't want to hang with him and his friends unless ur included. OR ask him if u could hang out with one of his friend's gf's. There's always room for compromise, u've just gotta find it. IF he's worth anything that is.
2007-09-07 23:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends, is he around them every second of every day or does he rarely see them? the thing is most men are like this. give him his time to be with them and be scarce when it happens. then tell him that you need your own time alone with him as well but don't act jealous. after awhile if your with him you'll attract your own couple friends that met you both together. you'll still have your own but you'll also gain a lot of people that are good friends with both of you. then its cool because you can ignore each other and still be in the same room and not realize that your not spending every second together or feel jealous.
2007-09-07 23:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him know that his actions are bugging you. they always say that good communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. if that doesn't change things, then yes, you should definitely break up, even if you love him. his just not worth it. you'll get over it. it will be hard but its not impossible. you'll find someone that treats you right, no matter where he is or who his with. Hope that helps!
2007-09-07 23:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all ask yourself if you truly are in love. If you are then simply let him know that you feel left out and uncomfortable when you are with his friends. Say you feel like you are not even there. Try not to say "you" or "your friends" because then he'll just feel that you are blaming his friends and inturn will feel offended.
2007-09-07 23:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by CDAWWG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't break up with him but simply tell him how you feel. When he knows that with his friends you feel left out, if he loves u like he says he does than he will focus more on making you feel comfortable and being there for you.
2007-09-07 23:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by jimmysgrl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't jump to conclusions. open u ur mind. ur bf is a social guy. appreciate that don't crib. give ur relationship some time to mature before doing something silly and repenting for the rest of ur life..... good luck...
2007-09-07 23:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You need to talk to him and really let him know how your feeling because he may not know that he is doing anything wrong. If you sit down and talk to him, he will realize that this isn't what you want.
2007-09-07 23:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by boser89 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋