I think that the second
2007-09-07 15:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by BaC Helen 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
There are a lot of couples that do not take care of each other's sexual needs. It does not necessarily mean that they get it from outside of the marriage.
2007-09-07 16:10:08 · update #1
Premarital sex is a sinful act but sexual intimacy within the confines of marriage is a blessed and joyful expression of the love between one husband and one wife; however, withholding sex from one's marital partner is also very displeasing in the sight of the Lord.
Personally, I consider both of these "equally" wrong - neither is better or worse than the other.
2007-09-07 16:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having sex outside of marriage (fornication) is in direct violation of God's laws, so that would be worse. (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)
On the other hand, while the Bible does encourage sex between mates, there may be times when it would be best for mates to abstain from sex. (1Cor. 7:1-5) For example, if the husband came down with a debilitating disease that left his sex drive in shambles (either emotionally, or physically due to inability to perform), a christian wife would be understanding and would not either force sex on him, or make him feel guilty for something he has no control over. The same would be true of a Christian husband if his wife came down witha debilitating disease. Treating others as you want to be treated includes the mate, something that many people forget. (Matthew 7:12)
2007-09-07 23:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by peaceablefruit206 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There ain't a darn thing wrong with premarital sex.
Now... no sex after marriage...hmmm... That happened to us for nine months straight, twice! Haha you get the idea :-)
2007-09-07 23:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rapunzel XVIII 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree the second is worse. However, I think God wants us to wait until married.
2007-09-07 23:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nina, BaC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why marry someone if you aren't going to have sex with them? Seriously though, the second one.
2007-09-07 23:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Megs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God created Sex for the marriage Union,between a man & A woman. Pre-marital sex is forbidden. It IS reserved for the marriage bed only !
2007-09-07 23:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Isabella 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Not ahve sex with your spouse? Who are you having sex with?
I knew all these Christiains cheat! I knew it!
2007-09-07 22:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think the second too.
2007-09-07 22:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
there isn't one sin that is worse then another. God hates all sin.
2007-09-08 00:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by island girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the second choice.
2007-09-07 23:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋