i want to ask her out so bad...but im not sure if i should just ask her out and get straight to the point. i really care about her, and what her answer is going to be....i guess thats why im so nervous...seriously IM right now if you have answers (crz_dh)...im planning on askin her tomorrow....and i need help tonight
2007-09-07 15:01:09 · 37 answers · asked by silent ruler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
idk
2 much dramma 4 me
2007-09-07 15:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Marli 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, get with the askin'!! There's no one here on Answers that can guarantee her answer or reaction, so, you're up to bat now, and there's no one on the plate but you. There's been times in my life, and I can remember them now, that I sorely regret not asking a girl out because I was shy or whatever. And then there's been times I HAVE sorely regretted asking a girl out. It's just your time to make the call . . . and no one can give you "the right answer". It's just a call, and you're the quarterback. I know how you feel, and I know from experience what has to be done. If you don't ask, I think and feel you'll regret it for the rest of your life, and let me tell you, from experience, that's a painful regret. My call? SWING!! But then, I can't guarantee you a hit. God Bless you.
2007-09-07 15:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see her, tell her you have something to say and find a space where only you and her. Look her straight into her eyes (Don't turn around). Then let her start say something first such as she might say, "What?". Then you want to say something like, "Look, I know we are just friend for the past X years/months. But these couple of days, I been keep thinking about you. Would you go out with me?" Something like that, or use anything that you think will be romantic. But you got to let her know your feeling and do it tomorrow as soon as possible before she gets taken away. Good luck!
2007-09-07 15:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kenndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to go to a movie, or some other place, with you, and just start holding her hand.
She'll get the picture, and if the atmosphere is right, she'll really enjoy it.
Afterwards, walk her home and tell her how you feel.
If she doesn't feel the same way, you can always stay friends, it won't necessarily ruin your friendship, unless she has been a fake friend, which I doubt, as she is your bestfriend.
Subtetly is always good, as it doesn't carry the pressure of moving too fast.
2007-09-07 15:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by M.J.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would just sit and tell her of the great qualities that she offers to the friendship and how you value her opinion. She will smile and then that will set the stage for your next comment. "I've decided that you have become more that just a friend to me and want to know how you would feel if we took this a step further?" Respect her wishes whichever way she goes on this. Tell her "Don't give me an answer now, please think about it" giving her ample opportunity and not feel pushed into a corner. She may or may not have an answer right away. Say, :I think your a great gal and I would be honored if you would be my significant other."(girlfriend)
2007-09-07 15:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well tell her first of all you really value your relationship and you genuinely really care about her and you just want to let it all out
tell her that you like her and ask her what she feels, and if she feels the same then ask her out and if not then tell her that you don't want this to affect your relationship but you thought it was only fair that you let your feelings out and give it a try
if you guys really have a good relationship, things will go on even if it is awkward for a little while
2007-09-07 15:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Besch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just to tell u, by best friend asked me out 11 months ago, and well.................were still to gether!!!
u should just tell her how u feel, and ask her if shes ever felt like u do,
dont just walk up to her one day and randomly ask her out, cuz first of all she might say yes for the wrong reasons, and that sucks to be a one way love thing going on, and secondly if she doesent like u like that then ur friendship wont be compleetly aquward, yea no, just b real casual and salm, but not to much because if she does like u u dont want her to think ur not excited about it
well, Good luck!!!
:o)
2007-09-07 15:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by joyist16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk casually and slowly get into the conversation about it and tell her how you feel, no matter what happens, it's best to let her know and get it off your chest. then just get to the point..."i was just wondering iff...." etc..etc..hopefully she will say yes and if she says, hopefully not, no, then make sure that doesnt ruin or make your friendship weird, which is usually does for a bit. but yea, try not to let it.but hopefuly everything will work out!
2007-09-07 15:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here how it works man.
1. Ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend.
2. Make sure to mention that if she doesn't you still want to be friends.
3. If yes profit. If no then its gonna be hell of an awkward situation.
4. That is all.
2007-09-07 15:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this, asking best friends out is tricky, if they turn you down it could ruin the whole relationship. You should ask some casual questions and ask her if she thinks your cute, etc. Get an idea if she likes you back 'cause if she doesn't there's no point asking.
2007-09-07 15:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to be careful with this. Weigh your options. If you ask her, and she just wants to be friends, it may hurt your friendship. If she's been showing you signs that she likes you too, go for it, but don't be too forceful. Maybe just ask her if she'd like to go on a date, and see how she reacts.
2007-09-07 15:06:48 · answer #11 · answered by rebecca f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋