What can I do? I start shaking and feeling really scared, like I'm going to cry when he does. And he's constantly doing it! He's two years older than me, I'm only 14! Plus he's doing it in front of my crush, which makes it more uncomfortable and embarrassing. Any advice?
2007-09-07 13:54:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him nicely to please stop because you feel very uncomfortable when he does that
and if he doesnt stop, then tell an adult cuz that could lead to more touching and other things that he might force on you
2007-09-07 14:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, it's your body. Nobody is granted the right to do that to you, especially if you don't like it... which is obviously the case at hand.
He could be a touchy-needy person. If you're too timid to tell this touchy guy directly or simply avoid an unwelcome confrontation, simply use the slippery-as-an-eel directive to avoid his clutches. Constantly move out of his way and he won't have you in his 'personal space' where he has control. Eventually, he'll realize that you are out of reach and grow weary of this kind of foreplay.
2007-09-07 21:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Grammaton Cleric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should make you feel uncomfortable like that. When he touches you shrug his hand off. He should get the hint. If he persists ask him to stop. Be polite, but firm about it. If he is still touching you after all this tell a teacher that you trust. They will be able to help you out.
2007-09-07 21:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him come close to you. Show hate and dislike at him 24/7. I know kuz I acidity did something like that once to a girl.
2007-09-07 21:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever told him to stop?.....touching u is a big deal especially if you feel this way about it....tell him to stop and don't feel bad or mean.....it's your body and he shouldn't be touching it if you don't like it....if your feeling scared to the point where you can't confront him then you do need to tell someone about it...but put a stop to this...good luck
2007-09-07 21:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by barbie_044 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happend to me this guy called... well lets call him bob.
he always tried to tounch me and always grabbed my butt.
i was so scared i thourght i was going to die or think that he wold kid nap my and i went to a teacher.
but this teacher was a girl and we ere friends and i trusted her so much i also went to the guidence officer, and them together x-peld bob because skool is a place to learn not to feel uncomftable around........
2007-09-08 03:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to stop
if that doesn't work...
Kick him in his precious and run
if that doesn't work...
Tell someone like your school's guidance counselor
if that doesn't work...
Get a restraining order
Best wishes =)
2007-09-07 21:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Belinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, (nicely!!!) say, look, i like you and all, but I'm not ready to go that fast with anyone! if he keeps doing it and you feel REALLY uncomfortable, tell your mom,or aunt, or a girl who you feel comfortable talking to if that doesn't help, tell him to stop. like, demand him to stop.
2007-09-07 21:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him to stop it. Then if he does not, punch his lights out. I think you have to stop being scared and defend yourself.
2007-09-07 21:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hitting him, glaring at him, kicking him is not gonna get you left alone!!!..............tell someone that can DO something about it... we can't!.... a big brother, an uncle, your dad, a male teacher , the coach, your counselor... SOMEONE!!!.... your body is YOURS and if you don't invite a touch, you don't have to put up with it AT ALL.... got it?.... the dude is double scum and needs his attitude corrected!!.... see that he gets it.....
2007-09-07 21:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by meanolmaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋