For some reason, I don't follow most girl's sense of logic. They want someone nice, someone who would be there for them, someone successful, someone who can make them laugh. Basically, they want someone who will love them. If someone loves them though, that person needs to be desperate for them to a certain degree, don't you agree? However, once girls get the idea that the guy is desperate for them, girls will want to get away from him. I don't get that.
2007-09-07 13:12:50 · 18 answers · asked by lucstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do most girls have to get in a fight or something like that in order to be satisfied? What if a guy simply likes you and that's that.
2007-09-07 13:18:00 · update #1
~Wait for them to be attracted to you and you guys are a couple before you act like that guy. But never be desperate!
2007-09-07 13:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I know this may sound wierd or possibly phsyco but my friend and I are having a contest of who will get this guy to be our boyfriend first. Hes REALLY desperate and so this will be easy because I can flirt alot better than my friend. The guy seems like phsycotic to most girls because of his desperateness. So what i am trying to say is you should not be too desperate but you shouldnt play hard to get. I wish you the best of luck with your girl(s)!!!!!!!
2007-09-07 20:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do realise that's not the case for ALL women, right? Though I can understand why some women might run a mile if they find out a guy is 'desperate' for them. Sometimes it makes the guy look a little... 'clingy'. Possibly even on the verge of stalkerish.
2007-09-07 20:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't want someone desperate! Being desperate smothers them and makes them uncomfortable. Women like their space. desperate is a Que for women to run. Have you ever watched a movie on domestic abuse. That is how it starts. Desperate equals unhealthy. No one wants an unhealthy relationship!
2007-09-07 20:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by gijeanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should only get desperate for them when you are really in love and married. Besides that, do NOT be desperate! SUCH a turn off!
2007-09-07 20:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by noname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like it when guys like them like they don't care and if u r nice and things and not like a jerk then we don't care but when u r desperate 4 us we get sceared and want to get away because it just does not feel right show us that u r a goood giy with out having to be desparate over us
2007-09-07 20:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes defianately the first part. that sounds like the perfect guy, I think girls gets turned off when the guy goes into "stalker mode". Like that kind of desparate. You Know?
2007-09-07 20:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by horsechic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess its too easy if they already know u like them...just wait for her to ask u out or ask her out and flirt around and then once ur dating then u can start doin all that stuff...if ur not desperate then they'll try to fight to get to you..well not really fight but ya know what i mean?
2007-09-07 20:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All girls are different. Some girls are like that some aren't, you just have to find the right one.
2007-09-07 20:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being desperate is good but being OVER-POSSESIVE is not! just trust the girl and try not to spy her or follow her around...and ofcourse don't judge her if she laughs or smiles at other guys or their jokes...
2007-09-07 20:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋