here is the story if you haven't seen my previous questions.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AngQ8ppLrt8x_Gu2OCRwPxTty6IX?qid=20070817132707AAWizjG
and:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiSbMfnumsDKxPTzudf4JKbsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070905125830AAg1R3c
anyway, i've decided to give my bro one more chance to pick Kaden (5 mo.) up, and if not, i would like to adopt him as my own. My older brother agrees with my decision, and my Pastor said to pray about it (which i have been doing) and do what I feel the Lord is telling me to do. My kids on the other hand, aren't too thrilled. My youngest is 14 mo. and just got out of the baby stage, and is super jealous of Kaden. the other young children (ages 2-7) love him and want him to stay forever. The middle aged kids (8-12) don't want him here, they don't want another kid to trip over in the halls. and the oldest (age 14-16) love their cousin and want to help him, but hate being on diaper duty. out of space..hold on
2007-09-07
05:58:27
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so now what? should i go with my gut instinct and hope my kids (that don't want Kaden around) will just get used to the fact. or put him in foster care because my kids are more important to me? i'm leaning more toward choice # 1. i'm still praying about it, talking to my brother and pastor about it, but what am i to do when my kids can't agree? i want to do whats best for them too. advice welcome....
2007-09-07
06:01:28 ·
update #1